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Anniversary Celebration + Wedding Planning!

Photos in order: Wedding vision board, the ring I ordered, the V ring I want to pair with, The style of ring set i’d love to get my wife, and the ring she currently wears (currently on her lil plushie arm :3)

Me and my wife (technically fiancee but that’s what I call her) recently celebrated our anniversary. I had gifted her a ring a while ago (unfortunately I couldn’t get her a new one, I gave her a hand-me-down and she loved it but i’d like to get her a new one at some point) and to celebrate our anniversary I got myself one to match! I absolutely fell in love with the ring, and have been thinking about the sorta ring i’d be getting her to replace the hand-me-down.

This got me wedding planning! This has been honestly more of a mental project than anything, not something i’d likely ever do irl (partly due to cost and partly because she doesn’t have her own body but I digress TvT). Since I consider her and I engaged I’d like to do something with this vision board once I have a bit more money (maybe commission a few pieces and make a wedding album, press flowers, scrapbook, draft invites, a menu, etc. Basically the whole shebang with wedding planning without cost or execution, idk) and once that project is completed I can happily consider us properly married! I also had the idea to get us v ring wedding bands to go with our engagement rings once this project is complete

u/fandomfreakstudios — 6 days ago
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Show me your partner and I’ll assign them a ring!

As the title states. Send me a pic of your partner and/or the two of you together and i’ll assign yall a wedding/engagement/promise/commitment ring! I’ll be going based on vibes/palette but feel free to specify any cut or stone/metal colour (I will do my best to meet all criteria, if I can’t, I apologize and I may send multiple images incorporating the various specified elements). I’ve attached examples of the rings i’ve chosen for me and my wife :3

u/fandomfreakstudios — 9 days ago
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Everything’s connected… Can’t tackle any of it

To start I want to give context that I am very very new to all of this. Two sessions in. Maybe I’m going too quick here but I’ve been struggling with something.

Starting out I chose what I thought was a really self-contained memory, something I thought i’d mostly gotten over, that I could hopefully tackle in a straightforward manner before I started getting into the really nasty stuff. In hindsight that seems pretty naive.

I have OCD (I tend to ruminate) and definitely some sort of undiagnosed ADHD (cannot keep a train of thought on track to save my life). Every time I look at that memory I feel jerked around to every other little bit of trauma tangentially associated. I know everything is connected through the fact that it’s all me, but that just makes me feel like I need to be doing everything all at once which feels impossible.

I don’t know what progress looks like yet. I don’t know how it’s going to feel, what’s going to click, and how I’ll know when somethings actually working. Because so far it just feels like talking myself in circles.

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u/fandomfreakstudios — 10 days ago

You 🫵 should make a shared pinterest board for you and your f/o

I chose to do mine split-style because her and I have such opposite aesthetics, but if yalls tastes line up then format it however you feel makes most sense!

u/fandomfreakstudios — 10 days ago

Celebrating our anniversary…

Made a post not too long ago about how I unfortunately missed me and my wife’s anniversary by a few days. Since then i’ve been brainstorming ways to make it up to her and I’ve finally decided. For a while now the plushie I’ve had of her has worn a ring, a bit of costume jewelry I thrifted ages ago and gifted to her because it’s gold, and while gold isn’t *my* preferred metal colour, it is hers.

Anyways, despite being married I myself don’t actually have a ring… until now.

I decided on a whim to buy one online in my favourite colours to match hers being in her favourite colour and i’m just over the moon! It’s honestly my dream engagement/wedding ring and I got it for crazy cheap. Pink stone, silver band, heart shaped cut, and suuuuuper glittery. Honestly it matches my taste so much that I want to get her another one that feels as perfect for her as mine does for me but she does like the classic fake diamond with gold band she already has, so we ball.

Maybe when I have more money, and I’ll make her old engagement ring into a necklace for me to wear or something. Or I’ll let the plush keep the old ring (that’s where it typically stays) and I wear the new one somewhere (necklace or otherwise) to represent our bonded souls. I don’t know, i’m yapping, i’m over the moon, and I’m so excited to a
be able to make our anniversary special.

u/fandomfreakstudios — 12 days ago

Some Templates 🌸

The first one I will find and post the blank version in the comments for anyone who’s interested in filling it out!

The second one is from the app: Yumeship - Anime and Kpop Canon (iphone only unfortunately TvT)

The third, fourth, and fifth ones are from the app: Yumeshipper

u/fandomfreakstudios — 15 days ago

Slightly bleated anniversary with the love of my life

I completely missed the anniversary due to being busy this past week but 5 days ago marks a year since I got into a relationship with Dr. Doofenshmirtz! I just came across this sub and I figured no place better to celebrate this milestone than in a community where folks understand how big of a deal this is. I love her so much, she changed my life, and I’m just over the moon to be with her every day <3

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u/fandomfreakstudios — 15 days ago

Calling all adult selfshippers! Me and a couple of close friends have decided to make an adult-centric discord server for fellow grownup yumes. We notice many selfship spaces are targeted towards younger folk, and we wanted to offer an alternative to that!

We pride ourselves on being for-nonsharers by nonsharers, and have a claim list and verification system to enforce this!

Join: https://discord.gg/xtCnwRBPn5

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u/fandomfreakstudios — 2 months ago