u/fluffagus

Im supposed to start TC chemo next week and i am feeling too awkward to ask my Healthcare team about this... but.... other than the mouth sores did anyone else find they had sores anywhere else? Should I expect my lady parts to dry up or anything? Im 39 with triple negative invasive ductal adenocarcinoma, grade 3. Had surgery 4 weeks ago and tbh I had sex the day after despite the pain. I have a high libido and my partner is so lovely. When were in bed together sometimes its like the only time i feel "normal" or like a woman still. Now that the chemo is right around the corner im terrified that the experience will take away the intimacy I share with the person I love.

3 weeks post-op for partial masectomy and dealing with lumpiness and unevenness with my breasts. My compression garment is far too bulky for any cute summer tops/dresses. There is a 5 inch red incision on upper breast and a similar incision in my armpit. I wear a lot of spaghetti strap tops in the summer, and even deep V camisoles, but I have zero comfortable bras to wear right now. I can tolerate an underwire for about 4 hours.

Would love some recommendations on bralettes for plus size folks. Ideally with triangle cups, no underwire, thicker than spaghetti straps would be good, and a front clasp would be perfect but i dont know if thats realistic. Company must be able to ship to Canada or have Canadian stores :) for a 50" bust at the largest point. thank you!