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Not understanding why everyone has a reaction like “oh you’re fucked” when I tell them I’m having a daughter…

did anyone else experience this???? does anyone know why? I mean my son was/is an absolute angel and I just hate the way everyone acts like my daughter is going to ruin my life or something… are daughters really that bad?!

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u/forgetting-you- — 1 day ago
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My husband just told me “I don’t do anything”

My son will be 2 in July and I am a couple weeks away from giving birth to our second baby (girl) and having an extremely hard pregnancy this time around. My husband had the audacity to tell me that I don’t do anything and need to do more … I AM LITERALLY GROWING OUR CHILD and getting my ass absolutely handed to me on a daily basis. The pain has been next level and I am still working full time… 10-11 hour shifts 5 days a week. I started making my husband get up with my son a couple months ago when I came to the realization that I won’t be able to get any rest once the baby is here and why should I be the one getting up early in the morning while my husband sleeps in?! The audacity of some men absolutely blow my mind I am so furious that he would even say that to me and obviously I was triggered and cursed him out but Idk what he expected. He has a problem with being told what to do and I was telling him to clean up after his mess when he made chicken cutlets and then tried to rush out the door before cleaning the bread crumbs off of the floor and counter tops and leaving everything a mess. That prompted him to say “you literally do nothing I need more help from you”. I’m doing the best I can and he is the one who chose to cook for himself right before he had to rush to go somewhere. Half of me is completely livid and the other half feels like I am in the wrong for getting so angry and telling him to go fuck himself. I really just needed to get this off of my chest, thanks for reading

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u/forgetting-you- — 6 days ago

Just had my 36W 5 day appt and I am in disbelief…

My baby girl is currently measuring 8.9 POUNDS !!! She’s projected to be at least 10 pounds … For months I kept saying that I feel like she’s running out of room and I’ve been in so much pain but I never imagined birthing a baby that big let alone her being this big before 40 weeks! My son was born at 40 weeks at 7 pounds 7 ounces and it was a horrible experience that ended up in an emergency c-section. I have a c-section scheduled for June 1st but the ultrasound tech scared me so bad with her reaction and then she said she needs me to come in weekly to check and make sure baby is okay. I told her that I had to fight so hard to get a sono today because they don’t normally do them this late and she looked at me and said “oh honey this is absolutely necessary that we scan you every week you will not have to fight for this” which just gave me more anxiety. My dr also made it seem like I am going to be early… I guess I really need to get my hospital bag packed ASAP… I just had to vent because I genuinely did not think that my body was capable of this because I’m so small and way smaller compared to when I had my son. Anyways everyone please pray for me 🥲

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u/forgetting-you- — 6 days ago