I’m on vacation in a small town, at a small diner, when the bill came, I handed her my card, scan the card and gave me a print out to sign. She was upset 😭 at what I wrote on the bill. I did leave a cash tip smaller than what was the lowest % of the tip. I then received the stink eye, and a rude goodbye. She is update that I wrote no tip in the tip section.
A lot of people have talked about the experience of having a therapist or close friend shoot down the idea you may have NPD. You’re so great! You’re so nice! You’ve got your act together! Of course you’re not one of those monsters!, goes the line of thinking.
Had a doctor’s appointment recently for something else, and hotdamn if the same thing didn’t just happen. My BMI shows underweight. My friends and husband all urge me to gain weight and it’s difficult. Complete strangers have told me to eat a burger (I know, so rude. whatever)
I go the doctor. She walks in and I don’t know if she’s got her own issues, but there she is, same size or smaller than me, congratulating me on being just fine.