I found a deal on Facebook marketplace for a $30 basically brand new roomba i3. Is this model worth it for that price? I have never owned a roomba, just a standard cordless vacuum and standard corded one. I have a baby, no pets and a pretty open floor plan. Majority of my home is engineered hardwood with some area rugs and the kitchen area is tile. Just wanting something to run once a day for maintenance between major cleans.
I don’t know if this is an impossible list, but I’m putting all my ‘wants’ in a stroller out there and hopefully it exists.
My son is tall for his age. He is 8.5 months and bigger than average. We have the Doona for his car seat and I loved that it was a stroller in one. I’d love the stroller to be lightweight, easily foldable, durable, compact, comfortable for baby, the option for forward and rear facing and can fit nicely in the trunk of my sedan? I like the idea of it fitting in the overhead bin of the plane but I’m not sure if I am getting unrealistic here hahaha. Any suggestions on your favorites?
I posted the other day about my husband looking for hidden cameras on a private web browser on his phone. I got overwhelmed with all the messages and responses so I deleted my post.
I sat down with him after he came home from work and I just asked him about it and why he was looking at that. He said he was looking at getting security cameras for the outside of our home. We have a ring doorbell camera and had Arlo brand cameras outside but the arlo was crap, battery died after like 2 days and you constantly had to charge them. We ended up taking them down when we moved. He was watching a video about different cameras and saw a really tiny one. So his curiosity started going and he wanted to see how small they make cameras.
I really believe him tho because he’s never given me pervert creep vibes, he hasn’t had any weird sex/porn addiction and prior to us being together he was celibate for years. He holds himself to a high moral standard, which is another reason it caught me off guard. We talked about security cameras a few months back when he was taking them down but we never revisited the conversation again. As far as the private browser, he isn’t good with technology and he said he had no idea he was in that tab. Which I actually do trust him because when he went to show me he was still on the private browser and had a bunch of normal tabs open. So he was using it like he would a non-private browser and didn’t know that was a feature.
All the skeptics that will say there’s no way about not knowing the private browser was a thing, he grew up Amish and poor so he had no access to electronics until his 20’s. He doesn’t lock his phone half the time before putting it in his pocket so I’ve had him pocket dial me a million times. So it is probable that he was on the internet and it switched to private when it was in his pocket. He doesn’t have Face ID to enable that feature, I checked.
My conclusion is he actually was just deep diving into cameras and got lost in the sauce. His body language was normal and he didn’t seem alarmed that I saw it. He just chuckled and was like “oh ya, have you seen how small those things are? Isn’t that crazy?” I deep dive into all kinds of topics in my phone and it’s just out of pure curiosity.
I was with a porn addict and cheater prior to him who would’ve probably planted cameras in bathrooms so my trauma from that relationship took over. Plus I know Reddit loves a good drama story so the comments weren’t making the situation better, hence why I deleted it lol. Mystery solved and I feel a lot more at ease!
Long rant… I am confused and just at a loss for words. I have a wonderful relationship with my husband and we get along great. We genuinely love spending time together and have what I’d consider a healthy marriage. We have an 8 month old baby and we parent well together. When I say we have a great marriage, I really can’t think of anything negative about it. Our disagreements consist of petty things like him forgetting to take the diapers to the trash and the diaper pail is full or me forgetting to transfer the laundry over because I’m ADHD lol.
I was sitting next to him and he was looking something up that we were discussing. When he opened his phone, I noticed a private browser open and he was looking up hidden WiFi cameras.. like the ones the size of the head of a pin. He closed out of it really fast and I thought I was mistaken. My curiosity got the best of me and I looked on his phone. There it was, exactly what I thought it was. He was on a private web page looking at purchasing a small camera that you could place anywhere and it wouldn’t be seen by the naked eye unless you knew where to look. I found this a few days ago and I have no clue what to even think. I can’t imagine why he’d be looking at them, especially on a private browser (he never uses private browsers). I have been feeling uneasy and wondering if he is planning on spying on me, or just running possibilities on what use it has through my mind. If he got cameras for the inside of our home, I feel like it would be your standard Ring camera, not a small spy camera. I don’t even know how to bring it up, if I should bring it up or what to say to him. I do not feel good about this and I don’t know how to even express that to him.
It’s been bothering me a lot and I’m not sure if I’m overreacting. He didn’t purchase it that I know of and I checked our WiFi connected devices and there’s nothing I don’t recognize. Am I overthinking this or do I have a valid reason to feel this way? I just feel icky and uncomfortable. I’m not sure what to do from here.