u/gameplan0exe

can someone please confirm how Frieda pronounces her own last name? is it BYOO-ner? or is it BOO-ner?

TIA!

i need to find a support group for my wife.
we've been together 26 years, married for 23.
she's completely straight and i'm kinda bi (like, maybe a 1.5 on the Kinsey scale? idk)

she has, and i cannot emphasize this enough, ALWAYS been a fervent ally. even before i got there (because of my church baggage). she was ALWAYS an ally.
our oldest came out (eventually as pansexual), and my wife was her biggest supporter. our youngest came out as transgender and my wife knew all along, and immediately jumped into supporting him in every way (he's actually about to start T this month).

but, i came out as bi-ish, about 4 years ago, only with her, and it was so, so painful for her. she felt so destabilized, and afraid, and hurt, and confused (she also has OCD and anxiety, so this didn't help).
but, because it was only between us, we were able to move forward and things kinda got back to normal.

then, earlier this year, i made some passing comment and my oldest was like a dog with a bone and kind of backed me into a corner about it, and so i came out to her. she was only, and completely, supportive and excited. a few days later, i asked my youngest and he confirmed that she had also told him. then last night, my daughter said she accidentally outted me to my youngest sibling (nonbinary)

and now, it is wrecking my wife all over again. she is so torn up, feeling like she can't say anything at all about how this is hard for her, because she fears the judgement of being an unsupportive wife (even though i genuinely don't need anything, because my self-realization is/was incidental in my life). but, now that this is outside of just her and me, it feels to her like it necessitates some big changes, or that it "should" be a big deal, and i'm afraid it's killing her.

i just need to get her some help, because i think trying to talk it out with me is too close to the pain.

i tried googling something local, but i don't even know... help?

Hey y'all!
Quick backstory:
I've never been a bball fan, but my wife grew up playing and was a Sonics fan. she stopped following them after they moved. then we moved a bunch, and we've been in Oregon (now Eugene) for a few years. when Portland got their team (back) she got V excited to follow a team again!

i got us tix to the game against the Storm on 6/17 for our anniversary, and i want to get a jersey to commemorate it all!

who should i get?
Carlton seems like an easy choice, but we also really like Leite and Gustafson (but i'm concerned they won't be around very long?)

help! recommendations?

Hey y'all!
I was excited to see Madden back with Nintendo, and it was one of the main reasons i decided to get a Switch2. But, as I've looked around, it seems all of the Madden games i can find are "Game-Key Cards"

Does this game not exist in standard cartridge form? I don't want a "physical license" I want the actual physical game...