u/garlicbreadluvrr

Hi we're planning a trip to Jibhi , Shoja and Tirthan Valley in September end it would be great if someone who has information could answer our doubts

1. How is the weather there in September end?
2. Is travelling from Jibhi to Shoja and from Jibhi to Tirthan Valley easy if we self plan the trip without any tour guide i.e is transport easily available?
3. What would be the per person cost approximately for 3N 4D ?

Please note : The brother in the post refers to my cousin brother that i live w , i mentioned brother since we live in india and i've always called him brother (since he's elder to me)

Before i come off cruel by just the title alone lemme explain lol

So I (21) live w relatives in another city for my university. The cousin i live with (29M) was in a minor road traffic accident 2 days ago and had to get stitches on his forehead and had minor bruises on his hands other than that he's fine (by god's grace) and i've been at home taking care of him since . Tomorrow is his follow up appointment at the hospital to get his stitches removed and his dad has already declared that he's going to be taking my brother to the hospital to get the stitches removed (the hospital is a 5 min walk away from our house) . Now my brother wants me and his mom to tag along too just because. His mum refused because she has work and now he's kind of passive aggressively imposing i come too . Reasons why i'm hesitant is

1. I work in healthcare myself and the hospital is one i used to work and before and i know they only allow one attendant to be inside the room so essentially if i go i'll just be sitting in the lobby the entire time which to me seems pointless.
2. I have an upcoming exam on Monday and already i was unable to study properly last few days due to the accident + taking care of him + all the guests showing up to meet him so i would really like to wakeup tomorrow at my own terms and study.

AITA for trying to get out of this?

UPDATE :

So in the morning he did try a few attempts to wake me up but i was js so out of it i couldn't even move , on one of his attempts his mum heard him waking me up and gave him a talk down on how there's no need for any of us there except his dad so to shut it and not bother me so yea i did get my precious sleep and now i'll be off to studying :))

Thankyou so much to everyone who replied

Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua

I'm an only child and never had any close female cousins as well (sab either married or males) so growing up i didn't have someone to look upto in terms of everything.

I used to visit gaon v less (once or twice a year probably) but my fondest memories were w my younger cousin (4 years younger).

Currently she's visiting me in the city for the first time and today i had the chance to pamper her w things she's never experienced .

Took her to get her nails done , took her shopping for makeup from scratch and everything head to toe then came home and taught her how to apply makeup let her try my clothes (she's never worn
crop tops or sleeveless) , she opened up about her love life (she's 18).

At the end of the makeup session she said "Didi bachpan se aapke jaisa banna aapko dekh dekhke sab copy karte the tha aaj atleast makeup toh aapke jaisa aa gaya" 🥺 felt so happy so emo