u/gloria_ao_PCP

Hi, Im from february 2007, Im 19 and would like to know if Im considered an unc. Am I?

Hi. I am a 19yo portuguese who is fed up of its country (we are a bananas republic in Europe and have super expensive plushere is a bunch of aholes) and who is thinking about emmigration.

I didnt finish my high school but Ill have it finished next year and I still dont know if there is a feasible way to be able to emmigrate to Cleveland.

Thank you american comrades for any advice.

Hello. I live in Europe (Portugal), I’m 19 years old, I’m a guy, and I hate living here—partly because I’m sick of socialism, but that’s not the only reason.

Since I love the United States, I speak English, Portuguese, and Spanish, I’m thinking of emigrating to your wonderful country, but I don’t know how to go about it—especially since I haven’t finished high school, I don’t have any specialized training, I’ve never worked, I don’t have anyone in the U.S., and I don’t have much money (it’s impossible to save up in this lousy socialist banana republic). I don’t know how to do it and would like to know how, since no visa seems to fit my situation.

Thank you very much, dear American comrades.

EDIT: Maybe Ohio, North Carolina, or Michigan probably

So, this is going to be incredibly hard to write, but I’ve kept this bottled up for so long and I feel like I’m completely drowning.

​I’m a 19-year-old guy, 5’5” tall, and weigh 110 lbs. Honestly? I feel completely invisible, or worse, like pure oxygen. I don’t have a life, and the truth is, I don’t even know how to begin having one. It feels like everyone around me treats me horribly, and no matter how hard I try to stand up for myself or just fit in, I can never get others to show me basic human respect. Constant rejection and cruelty have completely destroyed my self-confidence, leaving me with such extreme social anxiety that just the thought of stepping outside or interacting with people makes my chest tight.

​I simply can’t function socially anymore. I don’t know how to talk to people my own age because every time I’ve tried, it feels like they look down on me or treat me with pure malice. It’s a vicious cycle—the more badly I'm treated, the more I withdraw, and the lonelier I get.

​I’ve finally reached my absolute limit. I can’t take this constant pain anymore. I don’t think I’ve ever been this close to what you know because, honestly, it feels impossible to see a future where it's worth living like this. I am completely desperate, and the weight of my reality is crushing me. To make things worse, I haven’t even finished high school yet, I have zero friends to turn to, and I literally have no social life whatsoever. I am entirely on my own.

​I just needed to vent about the roots of this deep depression—the kind that leaves me completely overwhelmed, crying for hours on end every single day, wondering what I did to deserve this.

​If you read all of this, thank you so much for taking the time to listen to someone who feels completely insignificant to the rest of the world.