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How about yung dentista may personality disorder, manipulative, emotionally and physically abusive in her personal life diba delekado yun maka-affect sa Profession nya?

"Dr Karen Claire V Añonuevo"

How about yung dentista may personality disorder, manipulative, emotionally and physically abusive in her personal life diba delekado yun maka-affect sa Profession nya?

"Dr Karen Claire V Añonuevo"

How about yung dentista may personality disorder, manipulative, emotionally and physically abusive in her personal life diba delekado yun maka-affect sa Profession nya?

"Dr Karen Claire V Añonuevo"

I have been emotionally and physically abused by my narcissist girlfriend never ako gumanti sakanya kahit na alam ko naman na hinfi na tama Hindi nya deserve yun after ng mga pinag daanan sa mga naging ex nya. hindi din ako nawalan ng pag asa na mag babago pa sya. Mahal ko sya walang duda kaya din ako nag stay sa relationship. May habit syang Hindi na pag usapan ang mga bagay bagay samin kahit pag usapan.. one time nag sabi sya na gusto nya mag boyfriend out of nowhere. kahit masakit sakin hindi ko yun ipag dadamot Sakanya yun. Hindi nya na ako kinausap ng 3 days after nya Sabihin yun sakin yun. Nasaktan ako sa ginawa nya ng dahil sa emotion ko na yun. Nung 3 days nya ako di kinakausap akala ko wala na talaga unti unti ko na tinatanggap na di nya na ako kakausapin. Nag set up ako ng viber dating profile. Wala naman talaga ako nakausap dun hanggang set up lang. Kasi alam Kong di ko din naman itutuloy maghanap ng bago sa dating app. Hanggang kinausap nya na ako ulit na parang wala lang nangyare Nakita nya yung viber dating profile ko sa phone ko. Syempre nagalit sya at nasaktan. Ako na ang cheater ngayon ako na ang problema samin dalawa. Feeling ko na uno reverse card ako. Help ba dapat gawin.

I've been carrying this for a long time, and I think it's finally time to let it out.

I'm a woman, and my ex was also a woman.

From day one, I was certain about her. I loved her wholeheartedly and made sure she always felt safe, reassured, and valued. I accepted every part of who she was because I believed that no diagnosis or past experience should define a person's worth. I saw someone kind, generous, and deserving of love.

Knowing she had gone through painful and abusive relationships before, I promised myself that she would never experience those things with me. I gave my best to become a safe place for her. In the beginning, our relationship felt full of love. We dreamed about our future together, and I supported her through every stage of her life and career. I sacrificed my time, energy, and resources willingly because I believed that's what love sometimes asks of us.

As time went on, things slowly changed.

Small arguments turned into verbal attacks. I was cursed at, insulted, and constantly made to feel like I wasn't enough. Sometimes my family was insulted too. I kept those experiences to myself because I didn't want people to judge her.

Despite how deeply those words hurt me, I never chose to hurt her back. I didn't scream, insult, or seek revenge. I kept believing things would get better because I loved her and hoped we could work through everything together.

Looking back now, I realize that loving someone shouldn't require accepting repeated emotional abuse. You can deeply love a person and still acknowledge that the relationship is no longer healthy.

I'm sharing this anonymously because I'm not looking to ruin anyone's life. I don't want revenge. I simply want to tell my story and remind anyone going through something similar that emotional abuse is still abuse, and you deserve to be treated with respect, kindness, and consistency.

Karen Claire V Añonuevo is an abusive person