u/graces0505

For context, broke up with bf 6 months ago, and I was sure that I was over him lol. I got with a new guy casually, and when we got intimate, the way that this guy said my name was exactly how my ex would say it. Some mannerisms were crazy similar too. I don't know how to emphasize it, but the littlest things were almost EXACTLY the same to the point where I saw my ex's face "flit" for a second in this guy's face. Guess I wasn't truly over him lol but that scared me. It was really crazy but I think I finally know what Joji meant in this song.

I'm applying this cycle, and of course I am asking my parents to help look over everything (like my ps, activities, etc.) and lately, they have just been plugging EVERYTHING into chat or claude. Like im not anti-ai or anything, I use ai pretty regularly to help me. But, I am getting so fed up with them whenever they copy/paste entire paragraphs of text from chat/claude for me to read and not do an ounce of thinking independently. If i wanted an opinion from ai, I would've asked it myself. I have tried calling them out on this several times, and all it has ended up in is arguments, saying that I don't believe in them helping me, or me being ungrateful and claiming that I am getting overly emotional or defensive about their "ways". I can no longer tolerate this, as it is happening every. single. day, as I am editing my primaries. I don't think AI knows everything either - I just wish they would just lay it off for a few days and actually critically think for once, because I just feel like they don't really care about me and how I feel. They're just placing matters into AI's hands and treating its words like god. Please help - anyone else going through something similar?

We've been broken up for the past 8 months and honestly don't regret ever doing it (I broke up with him, it was amicable). But lately, I don't know what provoked it but I've just been thinking about him a lot. I don't know if I would consider it "missing" him. I don't have a particular want/longing to see him again, but I have been wondering what he's been up to, where he's going after graduation, how his family is, etc. Maybe it's just because the likelihood of never ever seeing him again has become much larger (since I'm still in school), and he has just graduated. I would hope that I am over him (I think??) it's just that this past week he has crossed my mind several times for no reason...

I'm a 20F ENFP in college and I'm on the dating apps, and I've been on quite a few first dates but I've noticed that I've been attracting kind of the same demographic (?) of man lately. At least for the guys that make it that far to a first date, I've found them to be all pretty introverted but really incredibly smart (like top universities, employed at really top companies) and driven in their careers. They are also shy and super kind and seem to have standards, but gosh they just talk/interact like they've never talked to a girl before and it's rather cringey at times. Many times they are not extremely conventionally attractive (kind of short too?)- not shaming them at all, just what I had noticed and I don't really mind. I end up driving the conversation a lot and I just feel awkward talking. I think I just end up feeling bad for them because they are all really nice and take my rejection message well, but again I would not date someone (at least right now) with that type of personality. Not sure if this is just a coincidence or an ENFP-common observation.