u/greatpotentialinlife

Pretty sure out 17m having sex with his 17f girlfriend, he’s my stepson. My husband had told him he could watch a movie in his room with her as long as the door was open, I didn’t agree to this and we got into a bit of a fight over it but an hour later ss comes down with out a shirt on and wearing sweatpants which was not what he was wearing earlier and that’s when it clicked, his gf came over in sweatpants too. It’s pretty easy to just pull them down or up quickly if they hear someone coming up the stairs and that’s how teens can get away with having sex with the door open. So if you really don’t want your kids having sex in your house don’t let them hangout in their rooms even with the door open and don’t let them wear pants that can easily be pulled down or up if you don’t want them having sex in your house.

Doesn’t have to be a big account if anyone has an inactive account they aren’t using, I had some life stuff I was dealing with for awhile and wasn’t able to dedicate enough time to playing so I gave my account away to my alliance at the time but really miss playing and it would be nice to talk with some of the players I used to instead of starting over in a newer server.

Every little thing he cannot talk calmly it’s him exploding on me, sometimes it’s even things someone else did that he takes out on me. For once I’d like to not be afraid of tell him what’s bothering me without him getting so mad he feels the need to yell and berate me for something that has nothing to do with why I’m upset. Honestly don’t even feel like he likes me most if the time and we’ve been together for six years. I also suspect he cheated on me with his ex during a time when my dad was really sick in the hospital he took off for 4 hours when he told me he was going to get the mail later he said he went to the bar but his story has changed a couple times.

I realized I’ll never be part of his family, his family consists of his parents and his son I’ll always be the outsider never treated like we’re a family. Tonight I had brought leftovers for myself from my mom’s house and he gave them to his son to eat, I got no apology for it just told he gave them to his son. I’m a vegetarian and my mom cooks all non meat things so I was looking forward to eating the leftovers because around here they often cook things I can’t eat because it’s all meat. His son can do no wrong yet I’m always wrong. It’s almost like he likes hurting me and likes being mean to me.

Am I being a fool for staying with someone who clearly doesn’t respect me?

I feel terrible for even thinking that way and its made me kind of bitter towards ss(16) because of it. Husband has anger issues and anytime something goes wrong or he’s upset at something someone else did I’m the one he blames, I’m the one he yells at, says mean things to, and SS gets away with whatever without consequences because he’s a “good kid”, which he is for the most part. my husband also doesn’t see the things I see, smelling pot at 11pm that apparently only I can smell, driving with others in the car eventhough he’s not supposed to, staying out until 11 pm on school nights after being told to be home at 9, but instead of yelling at him like he does me SS gets off Scott free and SO gets mad at me for even bringing it up.. Husband said he’d buy me a car but bought SS one instead because we don’t need separate vehicles since we both work from home. We have taken two vacations together both were horrible, my husband drank too much and became argumentative the whole time on both trips the last one was a wedding that SS was upset he wasn’t invited along for (no kids were invited ). so to make it up to him SO decided to take him on a trip to California for his spring break just the two of them to go do fun things together without me but tickets were sky high and he canceled. today I find out he’s planning on taking SS on a weekend getaway to the mountains to go fly fishing and rent atvs to take on the off road trails together, both things I like doing but I’m not invited.

We have SS full time except a week over Christmas where he goes to Alaska to visit his mom and have fun out there, him and my husband also fly back to visit family for a week during the summer (I don’t go because we have animals to look after ) so it’s not like the kid doesn’t get out of town, he goes in more trips then I do.

Idk maybe I’m making a big deal out of this and shouldn’t but it seems like I get the all the bad with very little good and see SS being treated better makes me feel like crap. Thanks for letting me vent and get this all out.