small bears?

hey guys! i would love some smaller sized bears to go in my hug for height differences. i think it could make my display look nice, but i don’t have space for bigger bears yet!

i’m planning on getting little bean within the next few weeks. any bears smaller than that 37cm height?

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u/gutsandstuffs — 4 days ago

i feel like i can’t cope anymore

i have really severe anxiety. medicated, got diagnosed with ocd, got medicated again.

there’s just this general overwhelming feeling of not coping. i don’t know how to explain it. there’s things that are triggering it - health of my family, health of our dogs, and right now the fear that one of our dogs might be showing signs of dementia

i just can’t cope. i can’t cope i can barely get myself up and i feel like it’s only a matter of time before it gets so bad im struggling to work or go to class

it feels like im at the end of my tether. i see a therapist but i see her infrequently because i can’t afford it week to week. i couldn’t even afford the last appointment that i ended up missing because my paycheck came in late - so ill have to pay twice as much for my next appointment anyway

self harm is something i do infrequently but i feel the urge coming up again. i never got rid of the box cutter i bought last time, even if i told my therapist that i binned it. i just want someone to do SOMETHING. i feel like the support im getting right now isnt enough. i’m engaging with therapy as much as i can but it still feels like it’s doing nothing. psychiatric stays are too expensive and im not acute enough to show up to an er for help.

just don’t really know what to do anymore

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u/gutsandstuffs — 1 month ago

i feel like i can’t cope anymore

i have really severe anxiety. medicated, got diagnosed with ocd, got medicated again.

there’s just this general overwhelming feeling of not coping. i don’t know how to explain it. there’s things that are triggering it - health of my family, health of our dogs, and right now the fear that one of our dogs might be showing signs of dementia

i just can’t cope. i can’t cope i can barely get myself up and i feel like it’s only a matter of time before it gets so bad im struggling to work or go to class

it feels like im at the end of my tether. i see a therapist but i see her infrequently because i can’t afford it week to week. i couldn’t even afford the last appointment that i ended up missing because my paycheck came in late - so ill have to pay twice as much for my next appointment anyway

self harm is something i do infrequently but i feel the urge coming up again. i never got rid of the box cutter i bought last time, even if i told my therapist that i binned it. i just want someone to do SOMETHING. i feel like the support im getting right now isnt enough. i’m engaging with therapy as much as i can but it still feels like it’s doing nothing. psychiatric stays are too expensive and im not acute enough to show up to an er for help.

just don’t really know what to do anymore

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u/gutsandstuffs — 1 month ago

favourite girl bear? ❤️

i just got griffiths today, but i’d love to aim to get another bear soon! and i want her to be a girl! so far my hug is just all boys ❤️ i know i can make them whatever gender i want, but if i know what pronouns the website uses, its hard for me to think of them any other way. i’m getting sophie-louise for my birthday in september, but i can’t wait until then! do you guys have a favourite girl? i need ideas!!!

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u/gutsandstuffs — 1 month ago

whitewing… sniff sniff…

i’m doing a reread (skipping tpot because jaypaw genuinely makes it so hard to read) and oh my god whitewing!!!!!!

delaying her warrior ceremony so birchpaw isn’t stuck as the only apprentice!

constantly worrying about her daughters and being just the best mama and making sure they’re looked after!!!

almost a child of divorce…. poor girl

idk she’s been my favourite character since i was like 12 or so, or whenever i read oots for the first time. i just want to talk about her. give me your whitewing opinions. headcanons. i don’t know i just never see anyone talking about her!!

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u/gutsandstuffs — 2 months ago

how do you pick new friends?

i’m just curious how people decide on which new friends to purchase and take home! do you do only one type, one species? colour? size? ❤️

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u/gutsandstuffs — 2 months ago

apple blossom ❤️

got my newest darling to celebrate getting my cert 2 in auslan!!! apple blossom and gooseberry pie look gorgeous together

u/gutsandstuffs — 2 months ago

first cb!!!

i actually went into a store i found (sort of) nearby that sold bears with the intention of buying a cheaper bear as my first. but then i saw gooseberry and his face made me want to cry they’re so expressive and sweet!!! excited for him to be the first in the collection!

u/gutsandstuffs — 3 months ago

interested in collecting. i have a few questions?

hi! i have been tossing up buying some charlie bears to start collecting for over a year and today i saw ramsey and i finally lost the battle lol

i just have a few questions, kind of before i actually spend? and just some queries and such!

  1. do they have different fur types? they seem to have different lengths and types of fur.

  2. what is the difference between all the collections?

  3. what sizes are they usually in?

  4. are they easy to keep clean? especially ones with longer fur; is it difficult to keep them dust free?

thank you for any help!!

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u/gutsandstuffs — 3 months ago