How do I cancel the rest of my sit without making my sitter feel bad?
I had a trip planned several months in advance. Last week my dog started having a lot of issues with her arthritis. We started some medication for it that seems to help but I’m afraid she is still uncomfortable. If she continues to be in pain I may have to start considering the final option as we have run out of others.
My sitter says she’s doing fine and I trust her. I just can’t stop crying and obsessively stressing about it. I think I want to go home early because the anxiety and guilt is becoming too much. The sit is originally supposed to end Sunday.
This is our first time we went off app so I’m not sure this is the best place to look. I want to pay for the rest of the sit but I just don’t know how to go about it. I’m so stressed about disappointing everyone in my life right now it’s just hard to think clearly.
If you were my sitter how would you like this handled? How can I make sure she truly understands this wasn’t a failing on her part.
u/hastygrams — 23 days ago
AIO: My boyfriend wants me to wear a hijab even though I am atheist
I am not sure what triggered my boyfriend's(22m) sudden fascination with me(20f) wearing a hijab, but for the last month he has continually bringing it up. At first it was jokes, and then he kept saying that I would look more beautiful in it, which I said defeats the purpose, because was he wanting me to wear it to look less desirable. He wasn't even that religious when we first met (he grew up Muslim but I thought it was more so cultural for him than religious). We have been dating for over a year now, and live in different cities, so I feel like it stems from his insecurity because I get catcalled and asked out a lot, and tell him when this happens.
This whole thing pisses me off because I already feel like I have sacrificed a lot since I dress modestly compared to a lot of other girls my age, even when it's hot, because he wants me to. But he continually pushes my boundaries, when I say no. My parents would be really mad if I wore this in front of them, since they're religious Christians. AIO or is he just not taking no for an answer? I am so mad right now, and I am not sure how to convey that to him.
Also please don't have this turn into something Islamophobic, I just want advice to navigate this relationship.
u/Maximum-Grand6140 — 3 months ago
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What’s up with the LA complex in the ‘collaborations’ playlists on Degrassi Channel YouTube?
Do they actually have anything to do with Degrassi? How is it a collab.
u/hastygrams — 4 months ago