u/heightrestricteddiva

For context, I (F25) am currently working as an Admin sa isang state university/college. I graduated with a degree in Psychology and my previous work is as a teacher sa isang center.

I really want to work abroad but I have no idea where to start. I enjoy teaching kids and I believe it is my passion, pero ang hirap kasing ma-hire as public teacher dito sa 'tin.

May tips po ba kayo on how I can work abroad as a teacher? If yes po, ano po kayang bansa ang magandang puntajmhan and paano po kaya ang process? Thank you so much po sa mga sasagot! God bless!

For context, I (F24) just recently took a break from work because I want to focus on my self-growth at dahil na-overwhelm din talaga ako do'n sa isang workplace na pinag-trabahuhan ko.

Ngayon, my Mom invited me to go on a vacation sa province n'ya which is in Visayas. I'm not going to say where, but it's somewhere near Boracay.

When I got there, of course I was thrilled to see my relatives — Titos, Titas, and cousins. And since life there isn't exactly prosperous, karamihan ng mga gastusin eh Mom ko ang sumalo. Walang problema sa 'kin since wala rin namang problema sa Mom ko.

I was just caught off guard when one of my Titas asked me if may boyfriend ako. I said yes. She then asked me if I'm getting married anytime soon. Sabi ko in a distant future pa kasi my boyfriend and I are both saving enough money for ourselves and the family we're planning to build. Dagdag pa do'n, tumutulong din ako sa bahay since malapit na mag-retire Dad ko.

After knowing na I'm not getting married yet, my Tita then proceeded to tell me, "Tama 'yan 'wag ka munang mag-asawa. Maawa ka naman sa 'min. Tulungan mo muna kami bago ka mag-asawa dahil sobrang hirap ng buhay dito."

And it's true. Life there is difficult. And I'm willing to help naman, pero not to the point naman na ako halos ang sasalo ng lahat ng gastusin nila. Sabi ng Tita ko ako na lang daw magpa-aral sa mga anak n'ya at sa iba pang anak ng mga Tita ko. Take note, mahigit lima silang mga Tita ko. At 'yong mga anak nila pinakamababa na ang dalawa. Kung ako lahat ang sasalo no'n, anong edad pa ako makakapagsimulang mamuhay ng para sa sarili ko?

This same Tita, also asked me to buy her a new phone, ipa-pustiso s'ya, at ipaayos ang kusina ng bahay ng Lola namin.

Again, I have no issues with helping. Pero grabeng over naman ng tulong na hinihingi nila. Tapos ngayon sinasabi nila sa 'kin na they regretted starting a family at a young age. That's exactly what I was trying to avoid. Pero sa pinapagawa nila sa 'kin para na rin akong nag-pamilya.

Ayon lang naman. I just want to let this all out kasi ayaw kong ilabas sa Mom ko. For sure kakampihan n'ya mga kapatid n'ya.

Thank you for taking the time to read, guys! Ingat kayo always! AT 'WAG KAYONG MAG-AANAK NANG MADAMI LALO 'PAG HINDI N'YO KAYANG SUPORTAHAN.