
Should I use this pic for dating app?
Is this too "in your face"?

Is this too "in your face"?
I don't hear people in our age group mention instagram much. I'm (50M) in good shape for my age, retired young with plenty of free time to travel and adventure. Was thinking of starting instagram profile to compliment my OLD documenting things occasionally. Do people over 50 consider instagram to gauge dateability potential?
50M, recently committed to 46F, single mom of 8,10,12 kids, financially stable, great hours and accomodating each other well. We've agreed on a relationship framework living apart, her not looking for a "daddy" as they have great relationship with dad. Also agreed to not meet each other family, parents, attend any functions, etc.. A caveat of her wanting in far future someone to marry and possibly live with after kids are grown and out. Overthinking maybe here, but do you see a potential for surprise commitment escalation where I could be slowy pulled into her family life and introduced to kids? I'm new to an arrangement like this. I have a 19yo with me and 29yo out of the house.