u/icedlattewithcaramel

Need genuine advise. What shall i do as a friend?

She's my bestfriend. She's a year younger to me.

Tbh we became really good friends before her behaviour changed...

She's been going on multiple dates... tbh that was never the problem... but abb she has started using my name as an excuse... meine iss baat ko initially lightly liya but... she recently blushed and confessed that she had s3x w a guy.

She's 19... and dating a guy who's 25 and a f boi (ik his past)...

Further, that's NOT THE ONLY GUY in her life.

Yes. She is involved w 3 men emotionally ek sath.

She calls them her bestfs from school but... she has had s3x w one of those three guys... which kinda makes it hard for me to believe that she's not romantically into them.

They gift her expensive stuff like perfumes and she kinda makes each one of them feel special...

This doesnt sit right w me morally and I've told her this multiple times... Will this be the end of our friendship or shall I continue to live as if I'm unaware of everything??

Tbh its not even abt me not wanting to get involved in a mess but I'm worried abt her... what if smthg bad happens?? And naa mujhe, na uske parents ko pata hoga ki woh kaha hai... and usually aise cases mein parents start blaming the friend for hiding things and being used as a cover up instead of questioning their own child.

Even my mom is now getting a negative vibe from her and asking me to cut off gradually

u/icedlattewithcaramel — 14 hours ago

Please suggest some family dramas that don't have a cousin-marriage troupe

I love watching pak dramas... have watched multiple- but I wanted to watch smthg with my mom during lunch...

As Indians, she wont like the cousin marriage wala scene isliye wanted some suggestions jo unhe pasand aaye...

The last drama we watched together and thoroughly enjoyed was Hum Tum, Fairy tale and Meem se Mohabbat...

Ps. I've watched suno chanda, iqtidar, mayi ri, mere hamsafar, tere bin, kafara, and many moreeee...

Also, I am currently watching seher hone ko hai- an Indian drama but its GOOOOOD

u/icedlattewithcaramel — 17 hours ago

My NRI friend is craving some INDIAN STYLE pizza lol😭. Suggest some places🤷‍♀️

All posts here are of "authentic sour dough" pizzas.. but she really wants to have full desi indian pizza (but achaa) toh suggest some placess naaa...

Preferably in Akota. Alkapuri, Iskcon temple wale areas

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u/icedlattewithcaramel — 2 days ago

Found the book my mom prepared from for her CAT back in her time. She got into IIM Lucknow.

She has made lil notations for almost All questions lol.

She didn't join any coaching for preparation. Infact, in her days not a lot of girls did MBA from colleges that were outside their city. Proud of her and my grandparents for supporting her 💕

u/icedlattewithcaramel — 4 days ago

Fake followers count

Reported her acc for hate speech. Cuz of

  1. Homophobic comments.

  2. Comments on parents of contestants- diksha ruru anushka suzzane....

I hope Meta checks and removes all the fake accounts which are around 1.8 Million (72% of 2M) (including fake, suspicious and bot accounts)

u/icedlattewithcaramel — 5 days ago

100 chuhe khaa kar, billi hajj ko chali

She pulled out the classic white cotton kurti combo to prove the she's the most innocent simple soul in this entire world🥹🫀🌸

u/icedlattewithcaramel — 6 days ago

Reporting Akanksha's account for hate speech

Cannot do anything abt the 2.6 million bots/dumb fans..

But did my part, cuz she deserves it.

  1. Homophobic comments

  2. Commenting on parents (of ruru and diksha)

Etc.

u/icedlattewithcaramel — 6 days ago

Akanksha finally confessed that she's a b*tch & not a baddie, i hope her fans will stop treating her like a devi now🤲

In this industry, even a -ve publicity is a good publicity and I'm just so pissed thinking abt how brands will reach out to her even more now cuz she'll give then engagement.

Performer bekaar

Actor bekaar

Dancer bekaar

Mind player bekaar

Insaan bekaar but will still earn more than the ones who were deserving.

Karan, niharika, sorab, yogesh, ayush, akanksha... all cheaters defending cheaters...

I CAN'T BELIEVE DANS ARE MAKING EDITS ON INSTAGRAM FOR Y AND A

u/icedlattewithcaramel — 6 days ago

MOST IMP TAKEOUTS FROM THE TRIO (Y-R-A)

  1. Why are we not talking about the 3 days stay together in delhi?????

  2. Ruru kissing her bestf 5 years back is irrelevant asf.

  3. Yogesh has not provided any proofs for his claim yet (abt ruru sending him threats).

  4. Pre-planning doesn't justify cheating.

  5. Himanshu dropped Yogesh to support ruru <3.

  6. Why was ruru not given enough time to talk????

It was like they only wanted to Yogesh and akanksha to justify themselves over sad romantic songs. The makers were kinda supporting cheating.

I wonder what connections akanksha had that she was given sympathy throughout the show

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u/icedlattewithcaramel — 6 days ago

Does anyone have the contact of someone to whom i can request refund of amt paid for IT OC? Urgently need some money.

I know refund of IT OC fees is not possible, but right now we are having financial difficulties at home. My sister has been diagnosed with cancer. All of our savings have dried. I have started a job but they'll pay me after a month. 13500 is a big amount for us right now, and i just wanted to request someone if that would be possible... any leads would be appreciated. Please help! (i've left CA so there's no point of me attending those)

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u/icedlattewithcaramel — 12 days ago

Good bye CA, you were a bit hard on me but thankyou for enlightening me. I quit today.

Today there was no electricity in our centre.

We legit wrote 3 hrs drenched in sweat.

To top it off, water bottles fell short and there was ruckus.

Couldn't focus much on my paper, had to re-read every line cuz ek baar mein dimaag mein nahi jaa raha tha.

But I'm glad its over. I'm leaving CA today. Had decided few weeks back but wanted to appear for the exams one last time cuz I had paid for it lol. Will be attending IT OC as well.

Although it feels lighter and relaxing now but I am feeling hollow asf.

I joined CA in 2023. Shifted from science to commerce. Fell in absolute love with economics and law (yes I loved the case studies in foundation). Struggled in accounts a bit but foundation exam felt easy peasy. Passed with Distinction in first attempt.

Then came inter, our offline coaching sucked (jk shah).

In a hurry to finish the entire syllabus, they legit ran DT Accs and Audit in the last few weeks of August.

Sab Dimaag ke upar se gaya.

Got so last and itna backlog aa gaya ki i couldn't cope up.

Jan mein sirf grp 2 ke exams diye... passed individually in all papers, failed in aggregate by 4 marks...

Realized THIS is not my aptitude. I tried to mug up accounts and taxation... these are not kind of subjects where you do that.

If I didn't enjoy accs and taxation which are literally the major subjects of this course, there's no future for me in it. Its like CA rejected me lol.

Idk what I'll do next... but I hope I do smthg that will make my parents proud cuz they have been nthg but supportive asf all these years and I know that they are disappointed but they won't show it cuz they keep hearing of kids committing sui\*\*\* and they don't want to put any sorts of pressure on me.

I'm so happy I found this sub cuz as such toh humara koi alumni network hai nahi, but i loved how everyone here was like a family- always guiding, roasting or ranting.

And I wish y'll the very best. May y'll achieve all your wishes.

Signing off,

Someone who failed miserably.

u/icedlattewithcaramel — 13 days ago

DO NOT ORDER A PUFF on a date if you're a messy eater

I looked like hidimba engulfing the entire puff with wafer flakes all around my lips and chin.

He legit opened his selfie camera to show me how I looked. Embarrassing stuff. He clicked pictures.

I dont think I'll ever eat that patty w the same love that i had for it.

u/icedlattewithcaramel — 14 days ago

I had been a studious kid my till 10th. When I topped school, everyone around me coerced me into taking PCB...

I did not have any idea about any other fields... but didnt enjoy the rote learning...

Joined Bcom + CA.

Cleared CA Foundation in first attempt w distinction.

But failed inter twice cuz of 3 and 6 marks respectively.

I dont think I'm made for CA.

My university didnt allow anyone to graduate at 70% or above.

I ended up getting 69%.

I'm so fucked up and I've no clue abb kya karu.

I had hopes of getting into IIM by scoring high in CAT...

But seeing the acads of so many people here who actually got selected makes me question if up ever make it because of my past marks.

My profile: 9/7/6 GNEF

Legit feels like I destroyed my entire life trajectory w stupid decisions.

I have become the worst academic self in the most important years of my life.

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u/icedlattewithcaramel — 15 days ago

Im planning to leave CA after clearing my inter group 2...

Gave group 1 acc aaj and realized I'm not scoring well...

Ik its dumb but i dont enjoy accounts and taxation... I dont think i can continue and final mein mere L lag jaayenge...

Plus i wanna take time out for chilling and my hobbies...

But I've absolutely no clue where to start from and what to do... cuz I'm just standing as a Bcom graduate now.

Also, I'll be writing law ka paper cuz I paid the fees but I've not revised it in a long time... any marathon i can refer to so that I'm not sitting blank in those 3 hrs? Just need a brush up

u/icedlattewithcaramel — 17 days ago

I often love taking 30-40 minutes ke showers and smtimes I love taking baths at night. Will i have to change my habits? Is there a limited amt of water that you can use or perhaps a designated period of time in which you'll have to come out...

Oh also, do you've to wash clothes w your hands or are there washing machines available?

I'm pretty stressed about that.

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u/icedlattewithcaramel — 18 days ago