AITK if ever do this?
After my engagement both the families got into a fight and my husband’s relative told my husband leave that girl(without even thinking about my life afterwards) and we will search for any other match…. My husband was very sorry for what and how their family started the fight so we continued with the marriage later when I was pregnant the same asshole relative told some hideous things about me to my mother in law then my mother in law taunted me indirectly In a very ugly language
Now that Same relative’s daughter is getting married they got engaged shall I text her fiancé like she slept with almost 3 boys( I know I got nothing to do with body count… but it’s a big taboo in our family to have slept with others before the wedding… which will obviously lead into cancelling of the wedding) I get this sudden urges and also all the things that they kept doing to me was not at all normal I personally to the day think about what they did to me. It was very personal for me i spent days nights thinking about why they did that to me…. Because i was a girl not from their family? Or she is an outsider and we can treat how ever we want to? I wish he sees my messages and hopefully cancels the wedding
(After all the girl didn’t do any thing comments what if the girl too did something? She literally gossips about me to my own sister In law and my co sister…. She was the main culprit her parent told my mother in law about me when I was pregnant)