u/imallowedtosmile

▲ 0 r/t4t

[29TF4A] Looking for long-term flirty friends and fans of the arts!

Good morning! I'm a 29-year old trans woman from the Midwest USA ^^ It's been a while since I've gone out and been social so I'm looking to make a few new friends online! Anyone can play except for cissies (this is t4t after all). You can be from anywhere in the world, you don't have to live right next door to me :) Below is a list of points about me that you can respond to, but you don't need to feel like you have to hit every single one, I just want to give a bit of variety so everyone has a chance to talk about something they like (⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠)⁠♡

  1. Contrary to pretty much all other trans girls, I don't play video games very often, but when I do I'm mostly playing Tetris. I have a pretty soft spot for collecting things so games like Donkey Kong 64 and Pokemon also hit the spot for me.

  2. On the other hand, I am a HUGE board/card gamer. Rolling dice, painting minifigs, flipping cards, searching through tables, backstabbing other players, I love it all. Anything from Uno to Magic the Gathering to Munchkin to Killer Bunnies to One Deck Dungeon to Sequence to Catan and anything in between. I'm probably willing to try any game with you that you want to show me ^^

  3. On movies, I'm most into weird unsettling artfilms (think Afterschool (2008), Human Centipede (2009), The Strange Thing About The Johnsons (2011)). A little while ago I saw The Killing Of A Sacred Deer (2017) and I've been kinda itching to watch it again. I'm also into animated stuff of all kinds, but I probably consume more animated television shows than movies. I'm open to movie suggestions if you wanna make a night of it :)

  4. Speaking of TV shows, I watch cartoons almost every day! 2000s Nickelodeon and Cartoon Network are where most of my knowledge is but I also love to watch obscure little things like Wonder Showzen. Like with the movies, we could start a new show together and it can be my little thing with you ^^

  5. Fashion is something I've gotten into more over the past few years, but I'm always willing to be taught more! I live in the realm of streetwear, my closet has a little mix of Bape, Golf Wang and mostly Brain Dead (if you love Brain Dead then I love you <3). I wish I had Rick Owens and Comme Des Garçon money but don't we all, amirite? I love it when clothes make me do a double take, and I love unconventional and obstructive design languages. If you see more than a trash bag here, then we will have LOTS to talk about. I just got my first pair of raw denim if you have an interest in that, too, let's get faded together ;)

  6. While I don't have much time to read, sometimes I find something I like and cut out other stuff to make the time for it. When I was younger I read A Series of Unfortunate Events and The Edge Chronicles, then gave up on reading until maybe 2018 when I got back into it with Moby Dick (which admittedly I probably don't understand but it was entertaining to get through). I just read for fun, I'm not trying to be a literature scholar or anything, we don't bookshame in this house ^^ a few notable ones I enjoyed recently are A Confederacy Of Dunces by John Kennedy Toole, Education For Death by Gregor Ziemer, and The Pearl by John Steinbeck. What about you? Read any good books lately?

  7. Music is where I really shine. I could never make a complete exhaustive list of everything I listen to so bear with me a little bit here. I carry ~200GB of mp3s on me at all times, so surely there's SOMETHING in there that we both like. My favourite genres are punk rock, hiphop/rap, and experimental stuff, but I'll listen to anything at least once, and I do mean anything. Pop, country, grindcore, ambient, noise, street performers, middle school band recitals, first-time open mic-ers, county fair bands, Notes App recordings, obscuremusicthatslaps, crappymusic, Caroliner Rainbow, there is truly nothing that I won't try. I believe there's value in all of it. Go ahead, show me something, anything! Maybe you're even in a band and want some feedback, I'm all ears ^^

Bonus) I'm polyamourous and have one beautiful girlfriend that I live with irl and another girlfriend who lives in Germany <3 I don't mind being flirty and slutting around a bit, but I'd like to connect on more than just sex and how fast we get there is completely dependant on how well we vibe together <3 I think I'm pretty vanilla switch but I'm open to hearing you out and maybe trying something new ;)

I only have one hard-rule: You must be comfortable showing me your face. It doesn't have to happen on the first message, I understand the hesitancy to share yourself like that with internet strangers, but I don't hide my face on the internet or from my friends so if that's a too much for you to reciprocate then it probably can't work between us. You're probably prettier than you think anyway, be a little more confident <3

I'll cut it off here for now, this is already too long and I don't want to give everything away! You can check my profile to see some pics of me if it's important how I look ^^ Thanks in advance for giving me some of your time! I can't wait to hear from you! (⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠)

PS: You never even got my name, how rude of me ~~🎶

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u/imallowedtosmile — 3 days ago

Naked &amp; Famous, Citrus Kasuri Weft (50-55 Wears, 2 Washes, 1 Storm Soak)

I wear these like 5-6 times a week and give it at least a day to air out and rest. I don't cuff these very often but I have to when I wear Chucks lol The blue is really popping out now, very excited to make it even brighter. I'm not going for super heavy contrast, I just want these to be very light so I figure regular washing is conducive to that end. I'm a janitor anyway so, you know, they need washed.

u/imallowedtosmile — 4 days ago

Brain Dead - Tani (Gold/Granite)

My only other pair of sunglasses, girlfriend bought them for me for our anniversary. Smaller than I thought they would be when they arrived but honestly it's still such a fun design and the colours are fantastic. Double barrel hinges this time. I'm gonna swap the lenses for prescription clears soon so I thought I'd share here while they're still technically sunglasses lol

u/imallowedtosmile — 13 days ago
▲ 105 r/Golfwang

Finally able to fit in my Levis again🥳🎉🎊

Lost ~15 lbs and thought I'd show off today, welcome to the weekend everyone 🔴🟠🟡🟢🔵🟣

u/imallowedtosmile — 14 days ago

Brain Dead - Staunton (Brown Tortoise)

Thought I'd post these since I remember someone asking about them a while back. I bought them on sale back in August and threw some prescription lenses in them, now I hardly want to take them off. The frames are pretty thick, the hinges are triple-barrel, and they don't slide off my face when I look down. It's my first pair of sunglasses ever and honestly I can't believe I went so long without them, it was worth every penny. I'm not sure how much more there is to say, just a nice pair of glasses, might put clear lenses in my next pair.

u/imallowedtosmile — 15 days ago
▲ 2 r/t4t

Good morning! I'm a 29-year old trans woman from the Midwest USA ^^ It's been a while since I've gone out and been social so I'm looking to make a few new friends online! Anyone can play, but all the queer folks get first dibs (this is t4t after all). You can be from anywhere in the world, you don't have to live right next door to me :) Below is a list of points about me that you can respond to, but you don't need to feel like you have to hit every single one, I just want to give a bit of variety so everyone has a chance to talk about something they like (⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠)⁠♡

  1. Contrary to pretty much all other trans girls, I don't play video games very often, but when I do I'm mostly playing Tetris. I have a pretty soft spot for collecting things so games like Donkey Kong 64 and Pokemon also hit the spot for me.

  2. On the other hand, I am a HUGE board/card gamer. Rolling dice, painting minifigs, flipping cards, searching through tables, backstabbing other players, I love it all. Anything from Uno to Magic the Gathering to Munchkin to Killer Bunnies to One Deck Dungeon to Sequence to Catan and anything in between. I'm probably willing to try any game with you that you want to show me ^^

  3. On movies, I'm most into weird unsettling artfilms (think Afterschool (2008), Human Centipede (2009), The Strange Thing About The Johnsons (2011)). A little while ago I saw The Killing Of A Sacred Deer (2017) and I've been kinda itching to watch it again. I'm also into animated stuff of all kinds, but I probably consume more animated television shows than movies. I'm open to movie suggestions if you wanna make a night of it :)

  4. Speaking of TV shows, I watch cartoons almost every day! 2000s Nickelodeon and Cartoon Network are where most of my knowledge is but I also love to watch obscure little things like Wonder Showzen. Like with the movies, we could start a new show together and it can be my little thing with you ^^

  5. Fashion is something I've gotten into more over the past few years, but I'm always willing to be taught more! I live in the realm of streetwear, my closet has a little mix of Bape, Golf Wang and mostly Brain Dead (if you love Brain Dead then I love you <3). I wish I had Rick Owens and Comme Des Garçon money but don't we all, amirite?.  I just got my first pair of raw denim if you have an interest in that, too, let's get faded together ;)

  6. While I dont have much time to read, sometimes I find something I like and cut out other stuff to make the time for it. When I was younger I read A Series of Unfortunate Events and The Edge Chronicles, then gave up on reading until maybe 2018 when I got back into with Moby Dick (which admittedly I probably don't understand but it was entertaining to get through). I just read for fun, I'm not trying to be a literature scholar or anything ^^ a few notable ones I enjoyed recently are A Confederacy Of Dunces by John Kennedy Toole, Education For Death by Gregor Ziemer, and The Pearl by John Steinbeck. What about you? Read any good books lately?

  7. Music is where I really shine. I could never make a complete exhaustive list of everything I listen to so bear with me a little bit here. My favourite genres are punk rock, hiphop/rap, and experimental stuff, but I'll listen to anything at least once, and I do mean anything. Pop, country, grindcore, ambient, noise, street performers, middle school band recitals, first-time open mic-ers, county fair bands, Notes App recordings, obscuremusicthatslaps, crappymusic, Caroliner Rainbow, there is truly nothing that I won't try. I believe there's value in all of it. Go ahead, show me something, anything! Maybe you're even in a band and want some feedback, I'm all ears ^^

Bonus) I'm polyamourous and have one beautiful girlfriend that I live with irl <3 I don't mind being flirty and slutting around a bit, but I'd like to connect on more than just sex and how fast we get there is completely dependant on how well we vibe together <3 I think I'm pretty vanilla but I'm open to hearing you out and maybe trying something new ;)

I only have one hard-rule: You must be comfortable showing me your face at some point. It doesn't have to happen on the first message, I understand the hesitancy to share yourself like that with internet strangers, but I don't hide my face on the internet or from my friends so if that's a too much for you to reciprocate then it probably can't work between us. You're probably prettier than you think anyway, be a little more confident <3

I'll cut it off here for now, this is already too long and I don't want to give everything away! You can check my profile to see some pics of me if it's important how I look ^^ Thanks in advance for giving me some of your time! I can't wait to hear from you! (⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠)

PS: I've lost about 15 lbs since January, why don't you ask me how I look now? And you never even got my name, how rude of me ~~🎶

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u/imallowedtosmile — 18 days ago

I like to wait until it rains and then go mop the sidewalks (makes the job A LOT easier, trust me). The folks on the highway also get to see a special selvedge treat!

Comment below your favourite thing to do in YOUR raws!

(Naked & Famous, Citrus Kasuri Weft, True Guy Size 34, ~30 wears, 1 wash)

u/imallowedtosmile — 26 days ago