Midwest, New England, or...?
I grew up in Michigan, and I'm considering either moving back to the Midwest after 20 years away, or onto new things, such as New England. Every city I used to know seems different, so I don't know where to begin.
I've moved around the country alone, so most anywhere affordable for a helping professional is fair game. I can handle cold, wet, shitty weather, but I'm over the oppressive heat/sun of the SE and SW. I would prefer locals be reserved-but-kind rather than acts-nice-is-mean.
I'm single in my 40s with no kids and prefer midsized cities. I always loved Chicago, but I'm not sure I can swing the HCOL and IL taxes. I'd consider a working class suburb in a metro area. I have a remote job with a modest salary that's expected to end in a year or so, so the local job market needs to be decent.
A thriving music and arts scene is important to me. I don't drink for health reasons and I'm not much of a homebody. I'd love someplace walkable with restaurants, theaters, and things to do besides watch sports with a fridge full of lite beer in the garage.
EDIT: Yeah, I know. My best option is accepting I can't afford to live someplace better, but I haven't given up yet.