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How long does sex last?

I love my husband and I really enjoy having sex with him for the most part, but it just goes on too long. I am talking about 1.5 to two hours at least, and although sex starts off great, after a while I just want it to be over. I literally avoid having sex late because I won't be able to get up in the morning.

Am I crazy? Is this too long or is this normal?

I also feel like there are moments when he can finish but he pulls out or slows down rhythm. I have asked him about this, and he claims he does that because he feels like it would be premature, and I tell him it is certainly not premature after an hour in.

I have suggested to him maybe we need more foreplay because i want us to both enjoy ourselves.

I enjoy sex with him and it always starts so deep and connected but having sex for so long is becoming a turn off to me. In turn I dont want him to feel rushed because it is about both of us.

Need opinions/feedback from both wives and husbands. Am I totally off base? Anyone else have similar issue, how did you deal with it ?

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u/incrediblemom19 — 5 days ago

Alan season 18

I get David and Madison lied, but I like them as a couple, and i think they are a good match. I am glad they were in some ways unapologetic about their relationship while apologizing for lying.

Michelle was upset because she was lied to and so was alan, but it was very clear they were not going to end up with their partners. I feel like this is not a 20 year relationship it is a person they married at the altar and they were together for two months and it was going no where. Not an excuse for cheatinf, but I would say it is "cheating lite".

Also, anyone get the vibe alan is a little strange. He was always bringing up sexual talk with Madison or with the group. Madison was already not feeling him and that would just make it weirder and more uncomfortable. Also Alan breaking and burning things I hope production just told him to do that because the reaction was on par for Alan, strange.

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u/incrediblemom19 — 5 days ago

The Crash (unpopular opinion)

I have only seen the netflix doc. I know there are a few others, but based on the netflix doc, I think Mckenzie purposefully caused the accident, likely in a fit of rage, but she did not expect the boys to die.

Unfortunately she was out of control and her parents did not set boundaries. She was after all dating a 16 year old at the age of 13, and living with him at 17 years old! I know this what not the point of the doc, but the way that was glossed over i could not stop thinking about it. Also, her parents never cared that she did drugs, her boyfriend seemed like a drug dealer, and her parents seemed impressed because he bought her daughter nice things.

I do not think she is this cold blooded killer that everyone is making her out to be. The arguments with the bf were toxic but also kind of teenage stuff because young lovr can be toxic. Also, using her social media against her I thought was not really valid. Lots of teenagers show a false self image on social media.

I certainly am not excusing her behavior and she should get jail time, but I do not think she should be in jail for life. Hopefully, at some point she will fess up and admit what she did, instead of pretending not to remember. I think she lacks the intention and acted out of rage. Very sad situation all around.

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u/incrediblemom19 — 19 days ago