Did you apply for grants before and/or after placement?
When our private adoption went through we didn’t apply for grants. Things came together quickly, we had the cash on hand after saving for a couple years, it was the cleanest way to do it.
Since then we’ve had to raid our savings to pay for other things kid-related and house-related (our wiring is shitting the bed and that’s not a cheap replacement).
Do places that give grants consider post-adoption factors and allow for post-placement applications?