u/iregreteverything_11

Problem/Goal: 24 weeks pregnant na po partner ko pero hindi pa din visible yung tyan niya 4’10 po height niya and petite type po siya normal lang po ba to?

Context: hindi pa po kami nag papaultrasound nang partner ko kasi ayaw niya pa pero mag woworry na ako sa baby namin kasi parang hindi visible yung tyan niya unlike sa ibang tyan nang buntis na same weeks din samin. Normal po ba to kasi payat siya before and maliit lang siya na babae? Mag papa CAS naman na po kami ngayon katapusan. Pero nag pa consult na kami sa OB before and lahat nang need na vitamins is binili ko para sakanya. Pero hindi siya nakain nang mga masustansya pagkain. Dapat po ba ako mag alala?

Problem/Goal: Nag woworry ako baka may nakakausap na iba na partner ko or may ka situationship siya

Dapat ba hindi ako ma bother kung ginagawa sakin nang partner ko ang mga ginagawa ko noon?
And ano meaning if palagi pa din kayo nag uusap. Chats and vc even vc while sleeping.

TL;DR [M24] and partner ko is [F23] Hi everyone! It's been 5 years with my partner and I love her so much. To the point that our world revolves around each other. I cut off my friends na BI and after I graduated from automotive school, I followed her to their province in the Visayas where I did my OJT and then got absorbed by a dealer. To make a long story short, we basically lived together for 2 years. But her parents didn't know I was hiding in their place all the time, and I got tired of that setup, but I didn’t realize that she was actually more tired of me and who I was. I really regret what I did because I know in my heart that I love her, but I did something I shouldn’t have done because of temptation. I know it’s a choice, but nothing happened between me and the girl, not even once. I became weak and got tired of us. I stopped considering all the sacrifices we made for each other. After she caught me, she retaliated, and we chose to try to fix things, and now I got her pregnant. But the longer it goes on, the more our relationship seems to fade, especially now that we're in a long-distance relationship because I’m in the UAE for work for our future. Then she chose to prioritize herself this time and broke up with me, but we still talk often and video call. I'm pursuing her especially now that we're having a baby, I don’t want to lose her, but she’s become very avoidant. I’m scared that she has someone or a situationship, a friend with benefits, or someone she’s getting to know. But I still choose to pursue her and show her that I’m more sincere this time. I really regret what I've done but I can't take it back. It hurts me that I hurt my previous partner so much. Is there still a chance for me with her? When I ask her if there's still a chance, her answers are always “it depends” or “let’s see.” Does this mean she’s not completely closing the door for me to enter her life again? Dapat ba hindi ako ma bother while she’s having fun and meeting other guys? It also hurts me. Non negotiable ba madalas ang cheating para sa mga babae dito or mag give chance pa din kayo if nakikita niyo nag bago naman na yung nag cheat?

Hi everyone! 5 years kami nang partner ko and mahal na mahal ko siya nang sobra. To the point na naging mundo namin isat isa. Inalis ko mga friends ko, hobby ko na basketball and after ko makagraduate sa automotive school is sinundan ko siya sa province nila sa visayas don ako nag ojt then na absorb naman ako nang dealer. To make story short halos nag live in kami for 2 years. Pero hindi alam nang parents niya na andon ako sa lugar nila nag tatago kami palagi and napagod din ako sa ganon setup pero hindi ko na naisip na mas pagod na pala siya sakin sa kung ano ako. Sobra akong nag sisisi sa nagawa ko kasi alam ko sa sarili ko na mahal ko siya pero nagawa ko yung bagay na hindi ko dapat nagawa dahil sa temptation i know its a choice pero wala nangyare samin nang girl kahit isang beses. Naging mahina ako at napagod ako samin. Hindi ko na inisip lahat nang mga sakripisyo namin sa isat isa. And after niya ko mahuli is gumanti siya at pinili namin na ayusin namin ang samin and nabuntis ko siya ngayon. Pero haba patagal nang patagal lumalabo ulet samahan namin lalo na LDR na kami ngayon kasi nasa UAE na ako for work para sa future namin. Then pinili niya na piliin sarili niya this time nakipag break na siya sakin pero madalas pa din kami nag uusap at mag ka vc. And pinupursue ko siya lalo na mag kakababy na kami i dont want to lose her pero sobra naging avoidant niya na. And natatakot ako na may someone or ka situationship siya or fubu or kinikilala. Pero i still choose na ipursue siya and ipakita sakanya na mas totoo na ako this time. Sobra kong nireregret ang nagawa ko pero hindi ko na yon mababalik. I just want to vent out kasi nasasaktan ako dahil nasaktan ko nang sobra ang dating partner ko. May chance pa kaya ako sakanya? Ang mga sagot nalang niya sakin pag tinatanong ko siya kung may chance pa ba palagi nalang “depende” “tignan natin” ibig sabihin ba neto is she’s not yet closing the door for me to enter her life again? And dapat ko lang ba ituloy pag pursue ko while she’s having fun? And meeting other guys? Saket din kasi e.