u/jaded_situation95

Weekdays sa Spa?

Kumusta mga spa during weekdays? May good crowds ba during non-peak days?

Madalas weekend lang ako and nag-eenjoy ako kapag crowded na mga spa since mas madami options to fun lol. Pero since I’m planning weekdays, I’m curious to try pa rin and it’s fine if hindi ganun ka-crowded basta may tao since mas awkward ako if ako lang mag-isa. Can you recommend spa na matao pa rin kahit weekdays?

Thank you.

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u/jaded_situation95 — 3 days ago

30 [M4M] LF Constant: Talking stage, Dating, Intimacy, FuBu

Is there anyone here who has the same mindset looking for their constant too?

It’s really exhausting having conversations with multiple people and struggling to find any connection and unable to get the same energy. I’m already 30 and I don’t like playing games. I’m hoping we can attract each other and get the same energy we’d like to attract.

Me:

🧑🏻‍💻 Accountant works in a Private Equity Fund.

🗓️30 years of age. People still confused that I don't look like my age.

📏5’5 height

🧑‍🦱Curly hair

👨‍🏫 Wears eyeglasses

👲🏻Chinito eyes

🧍🏻‍♂️Average built. Not too thin, not too thick

🐼 Some people find me cute, some don't. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

☺️ Passive and introvert personality. Mukha daw akong mabait

📍Pampanga/Mandaluyong

🤗🫂 Little Spoon

🅱️ Bottom for compatibility

You:

🧑🏻‍💻 Any professional will do as long as same page with me

🗓️ 21-35. No minors allowed

☺️ Emotionally / psychologically stable

🥴 Initiative and aggressive

📏 At least taller than me

🧍🏻‍♂️Manly or Discreet. Not into femmes sorry

🧜🏻‍♂️ Average to Fit

🤗🫂 Big spoon

🔝Top/VT

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u/jaded_situation95 — 7 days ago

30 [M4M] Anyone from Pampanga/Tarlac who works in Metro Manila?

I’m also from Pampanga but anyone who is Kapampangan that we can vibe in NCR and at the same time we can hangout in Pampanga everytime we go home?

Bisa ku mu mika-friend, date, fubu or jowa sanang kapampangan mu rin kasi pantunan ke talaga ing humor tamu at comfort tamu keng bawat metung. Medj mipapasawa naku din magtry makisabi pag ali Kapampangan.

Ayne pala deets ko:
• CPA
• 5’5 height
• Average built | 63 kgs
• Wear eyeglasses
• Chinito eyes
• Curly hair
• average looks - I may be good in person but not photogenic
• discreet
• bottom
• little spoon
• living alone in Mandaluyong

Your deets:
• With stable job
• 25-35 years old
• Taller than me
• Average built, Toned, Dad-bod
• Discreet/Manly
• Top/VT
• Big Spoon

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u/jaded_situation95 — 11 days ago

I've been NBSB all my life and my lovelife has been gray throughout the years. I'm looking for someone who is also looking for me and that's for my real-life fantasy.

Gusto kong kiligin at ma-inlove since I'm already 30 and settling down is my goal now.

Me:

🧑🏻‍💻 Accountant works in a Private Equity Fund.

🗓️30 years of age. People still confused that I don't look like my age.

📏5’5 height

🧑‍🦱Curly hair

👨‍🏫 Wears eyeglasses

👲🏻Chinito eyes

🧍🏻‍♂️Average built. Not too thin, not too thick

🐼 Some people find me cute, some don't. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

☺️ Passive and introvert personality. Mukha daw akong mabait

📍Pampanga/Mandaluyong

🤗🫂 Little Spoon

🅱️ Bottom for compatibility

You:

🧑🏻‍💻 Any professional will do as long as same page with me

🗓️ 21-35. No minors allowed

☺️ Emotionally / psychologically stable

🥴 Initiative and aggressive

📏 At least taller than me

🧍🏻‍♂️Manly or Discreet. Not into femmes sorry

🧜🏻‍♂️ Average to Fit

🤗🫂 Big spoon

🔝Top/VT

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u/jaded_situation95 — 14 days ago
▲ 45 r/phlgbt

All throughout my life as NBSB during my teenage until 20s, I believed di ako attractive sa ibang tao and hanggang fantasy nalang talaga magka-lovelife. Pinaniwalaan ko na only goodlooking guys have more chances and I was somehow thirsty on validation.

Not only simula tumuntong ako ng 30, I observed everytime some guys staring at me in public and I'm not trying to be delulu pero mapapansin kong sinusundan ako ng tingin bawat kilos ko. I feel happy everytime nangyayari ito and really appreciate if they admire me (whether they are goodlooking or not). I think this is my newly found way of getting validations and somehow to love even more to myself and nag-lessen to have relationship desperately.

I know that we should not get validations from others but you never know the feeling of isolation and being ignored throughout the years because some people (esp in our community) are the reasons why we are being hard on ourselves sometimes because of lack of appreciation.

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u/jaded_situation95 — 17 days ago