u/jeffinator3000

I am having a risky surgery soon. My daughter is 1.
I want to know what or how she may think of me if things do not go well. I’m struggling to imagine I will not have an impact on her life at all. That she won’t know me.
For those who lost a parent you have no memories of, how or what do you think of them? Is there anything I can do now to help her?
I’m sorry if this is not appropriate for this sub. Please tell me if so and I apologize.

Portlander here (sorry).

I paid tooth and nail to realize my dream of watching the US play in the World Cup on 6/19 at Noon.

I realize things will be crazy, but the question is how bad, how crazy?

I plan to arrive no later than 9:00am, park 2-3 miles from Lumen, and walk/ebike to the stadium.

After the game, I plan to hang around until at least 3hrs after the gam before driving home.

Is this a good strategy? How bad will it be really?

My brother wants to take the train, but this is much more expensive and doesn’t give my wife a place to store her breast milk.

P&TY for any insight!