how to differentiate whether im an ENFJ/INFJ?

hi everyone!

I've taken sooo many tests online and looked up cognitive functions, but I cannot determine whether I am an ENFJ or an INFJ...I always get different answers...

can someone help me out?

I’m pretty introspective and spend a lot of time analyzing myself, my motivations, my reactions, the reasons behind my behavior, and other people's as well.

I’m also very interested in people and tend to think (maybe overthink..) a lot about relationships, emotions, and interpersonal dynamics. I care quite a lot about how other people are feeling and can be very affected by tension or changes in someone’s mood. You can call me a people pleaser, if you may.

I’m generally expressive and can be quite social, especially around people I’m comfortable with, but I also really need time to myself and can become drained from too much social interaction. Sometimes I will just be super "dead" with others because I spent too much time with them...

One thing I struggle with is figuring out whether I’m actually more externally people-focused or whether I simply have strong Fe while being more introverted overall.

I’m very imaginative and really get absorbed in fictional worlds, characters, music, stories, and hypothetical situations. I loveee my interests and loved ones so much, if you see my room it is decked out in Photo Booth photos with friends, manga, game merch, Star Wars posters, my own art, and anime figurines.

I do tend to romanticize things and think about possible futures, meanings, and how situations might develop. I can also overthink decisions because I see multiple interpretations or possibilities, although when I become passionate about something I can get extremely focused and determined.

I cannot handle conflict at all, I'm always the first to say im sorry, send a letter, or come up with some creative way to get them to come back to me. Even if they are in the wrong. I legit have 0 people on my blocked list (except stalkers lol)

Academically and creatively, I’m quite ambitious and care a lot about achieving things that are meaningful to me. I have sooo many interests and am really intensely invested in them.

I'd say im very popular in my school, but then again I only consider myself to have 2-3 friends there. Funny, right?

I’m also pretty self-critical and tend to analyze whether I’m doing things “correctly” or living up to my own expectations. Socially, I can be very warm and enthusiastic, but I also sometimes replay interactions in my head afterward and wonder whether I said or did the wrong thing. For reference, I spent like hours rehearsing a 5 min conversation I wanted to have abt my best friend abt myself, since I usually share absolutely nothing. I'm more of a "yap about unimportant stuff" than have to talk abt my feelings or emotionally off stuff...

Idk if this counts, but I have a "preference" for liking particularly mean or nonchalant people...idk if its the "I can fix them mentality" but yeah..

Feel free to ask any more questions!

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u/jiminx_ — 3 days ago
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how to lift english section 50-100 points?

i took two SATs, on both i ended up getting 670/690 on the english section. my math has remained 790.

i know every question type, and as my score is already pretty high, im just looking for better and faster ways to get through the tough reading passages.

also, the questions i get wrong tend to be really random. on every different practice test i make mistakes in different sections, so im not entirely lacking on any question type, i dont know what to do.

any tips? im taking the august SAT next week, and aiming for a 1540~

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u/jiminx_ — 8 days ago

i can’t download??!!

i used to be an mmd animator in 2021 and wanted to get it again (new computer )
but it’s not letting me download this file…
what should i do???!

u/jiminx_ — 1 month ago
▲ 2 r/Sat

need help improving my reading/writing score

I took the December sat and got a 1470 (790 math, 680 English)

Then took the march sat and went down to a 1460, probably because it was my a level mock exam week and I spent my weeks before preparing for bio papers instead of sat...(770 math, 690 English)

I really want to get a 1540~ or above on the august sat.

(If there's anyone from NYC, I had also taken the SHSAT and got into Stuyvesant from it so I have that as like a base)

I'm looking for really good websites, maybe vocab cards, and like specific tips for English, since math is pretty easy. I have gotten the "analyze your mistakes" bs a lot, and the thing is, my mistakes tend to vary a lot

Like I am not making specific mistakes, and I know each question type and what its looking for, but I end up between 2 answer choices and choose the wrong one lol

Im a writer so I tend to maybe be more creative and less factual so I think this really affects my reading abilities...

I have reviewed grammar but would like tips and tricks for it too since I lowk forgot everything (a level season)

Thank you all!

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u/jiminx_ — 2 months ago
▲ 2 r/alevel

9700 biology p3

I’m taking p32 tomorrow and I want to know what experiments are likely or predicted. Responses would be very helpful!!!

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u/jiminx_ — 3 months ago