u/jungwonhyeong

Hey

The last time I posted on here was like, a week or two ago and of course I get an asshole or two in my comments that wasn’t really necessary.

I feel like a lot of people on here are generally expressing their hurt in this thread and then there are trolls just being trolls lol.

Show some kindness, especially in threads like this one. Y’know?

By the way, for those who are still hurting, it does get better. I know everyone says that and that’s the last thing you wanna hear but it does. I’m finally moving on, have somebody new on my mind, and I’m starting to accept what happened to be what happened.

Don’t be a dick.

Hey!

Is there a community on here for Long Island singles in Suffolk county?

I found a page but the last post was like…3 years ago lol

Hey.

So, I met the guy I’m talking to (or was talking to I should say now) on the 4th of July through mutual friends.

I told my friend I thought his friend was cute and to give him my number if he also thought I was cute too.

I got the number and texted him and we’ve been texting/snapping ever since.

A couple of days after texting, he did express that he was focused on his business and did not want a relationship at the moment. I completely understood him because I just got out of three relationship about four months ago and I was just looking for some fun for the summer. Even though he wasn’t looking for anything serious, he still wanted to take me out. So we went to topgolf a week after texting.

It was such a great time and he was 100% a gentleman. We continue texting and sending snaps to each other every day.

The reason I am writing this is because it’s been two days since I’ve heard from him after I asked him if he was free this weekend since he was off today, Saturday and Sunday. No response and he let our Snapchat streak die.

We ended on a good note. The last time we texted each other. It has now been a little bit over a week since the last time we saw each other.

The last time we saw each other was last Wednesday and it was obvious he was exhausted from work and I tried to initiate sex, but it didn’t happen because he was just too tired. But we were still texting every day after that.

I feel like I’m in my head and that he doesn’t like me anymore and that’s why he stopped texting me, but I also feel like maybe I did something wrong somehow?

I don’t know…I feel like I’m overthinking or in my head

I don’t know if this helps, but I am 28F and he is 30M

I know he works long hours on the weekdays and that he only wanted something casual, but we’re not even having sex so I don’t know what’s going on.