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Elderly cat with kidney disease

Help me process this disconnect between what the vet and internet tell me, and what I’m seeing in my sweet 15 year old Billy T Katt.

Short:
rapid weight loss in the past month. Despite regular appetite. Bloodwork shows 2/3 markers for kidney disease.

Longer:
He essentially has zero body fat and his muscle is wasting.
But he eats! Oh how he eats! Wet food, small amounts through out the day.
Tons of water and tons of pee in the litter box. Almost no poop, but he’s always done that outside.
Energy level is low, but he still wanders around and meows, and likes gentle pets and snuggles. He prefers to lay in the bathroom in front of the AC vent.

The vet told us we can expect Billy to die soon and that there’s nothing to be done at this advanced stage. And it makes me so sad.

Actually, the vet did also diagnose him with hypertension and prescribed amlipodine to lower his BP, which has helped his energy level a little bit.

But also he’s not vomiting or refusing food don’t hurts me even worse to see him just slowly wasting away.

Is it worth getting a second opinion? Has anyone gotten their kidney failure cat semi-healthy again? I’m really not ready for my baby to die.

u/justamomdoingmybest8 — 10 days ago

Can I please get a really well written DR with a supper bad boy and non con and all that good stuff, but without the gaslighting and emotional manipulation??

This is a me problem, not an author problem. But I keep getting myself triggered by these emotionally manipulative MMC’s and weak FMC’s. {Quarantine by Drethi A} and {Torment by Dylan Page} are the two most recent. I DNF quarantine, but I’m working through Torment bc I really like the story. I also just finished {The Catcher by Kate Raven}. That one was fine, trigger-wise, but it was really rushed. I think I just don’t like her an a writer.

I’m not even sure what I actually want. Really I want Giana Darling to write another Fallen novel. But I’m not getting that so …

-mmf is great. Or however many M’s you’ve got
-captive situations great
-enemies to reluctant lovers, woohoo
-inventive sex scenes.
-strong fmc that at least pushes against them a little or speaks her mind. I wouldn’t even mind the manipulation stuff so much if she used her brain and FOUGHT to stay in reality!!
-biker gang, street crew, mafia, billionaire, don’t care.

available on audio through hoopla/libby/KU is a plus but not necessary.

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u/justamomdoingmybest8 — 3 months ago

What should I do when I grow up? or I need a guidance counselor at age 44.

I quit teaching middle school math when I was pregnant with my second child. 12 years later, I’m watching him, and my third and fourth born, jump on our trampoline in the back yard. It’s been a wild ride but I don’t regret leaving for a minute. And I don’t want to go back. Not to the classroom anyway.

I homeschooled for a little while and loved that. I tried tutoring and it was fun, but it made me so frustrated at the failings of our local public middle school. Now I’m a Starbucks barista working with a ton of unique individuals half my age. It’s fantastic!! I make $16/hour, I set my own availability. I clock in and clock out and don’t take work home with me. Yeah, I’m just a cog in the corporate machine, and I have to deal with all sorts of nonsense and drama from Management. And I’m essentially a fast food worker, no matter how much Sbux tries to sell themselves as higher level.

But the best part of it is the young people. I’m learning new vocabulary, observing the complex world of dating and LGBTQ+ identity and relationships. I get to talk them through experiences they’re having for the first time and give encouragement and support.

What kind of jobs are out there that will allow me to support 20- and 30- Somethings in a more official capacity? Ideally without coming home physically exhausted and smelling like coffee?

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u/justamomdoingmybest8 — 4 months ago

How are we all dealing with Qulipta induced hair loss?

I’ve been on Qulipta 60mg for about 18 months now and it’s actually pretty fantastic. Great results I can rave about in a separate post.

But for now, let’s talk about our hair. I have long hair and I really don’t want to go back to a Mom Cut©️. But the clumps coming out of my head every time I brush is rivaling post-partum levels. It’s all over me all the time.

I have really thick hair, so I’m not concerned about the vanity or balding aspect. It’s mostly the vacuum clogging, feeling like there’s bugs on me, hairs falling in everyone’s food component.

Is there any sort of special shampoo you use? Vitamins? Anything I can do to keep my hair in my head so I don’t have to resort to a pixie cut?

Thanks all!

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u/justamomdoingmybest8 — 4 months ago

Return to work?

I work as a barista at a super busy, short staffed Starbucks. I am on my feet my entire 5-8 hour shift except for a 10 minute break and maybe a 30 minute lunch. I only really work 20 hours a week, Friday-Sunday.

I called off of work last Friday-Sunday for my lithotripsy and stent insertion. That’s 3 days. I did file for a LOA because my removal isn’t until Monday June 1, causing me to miss another three shifts.

my discharge paperwork says return to normal activities once I’m off of narcotics (I am). But the post the other day from the urologist says to rest as much as possible. And the blood I’m peeing from being on my feet for a couple hours taking care of my family while my husband travels tells me that rest is necessary.

Do you think they’ll approve the LOA? Do you think working 20 hours on stent days 7,8,9 is wise or foolish?

I’m in the US for context.

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u/justamomdoingmybest8 — 5 months ago
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What do I buy with $500?

My lovely husband bought me a $500 Home Depot card with his travel points. I really want a new mower bc I messed up the wheel on mine, and the self-propelled doesn’t work anymore (ryobi 20” 40HP).

I already have (3) 40v batteries, 6aH, and a bunch of the 18v. So I’m looking to buy the mower only. I figured I could also get a Vac Attack or some other sort of tool as well.

What deals can I use, what should I be looking for?

And what would YOU buy with $500?

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u/justamomdoingmybest8 — 5 months ago