u/justlikethatmeh

I've been obsessed with her since almost a month.

45M.

6 years relationship.

She have 3 kids, divorced. Still struggling with the ex. She fell guilty for the kids and failure for the perfection of the family.

She's the avoidant struggling to express emotions. Early Divorced parents, hence the guilt.

I'm the anxious, talkative confident until I fell abandoned or left aside then it's not pretty. Single child, disregard emotionally early child, hence the attention seeking ( somewhat)and panic when not given enough.

Very pationnate love relationship. Hard communication. Time was short. Not living with them when to kids are home. Screwed it up, to anxious of not being good enough. Reproduced parents patterns. Got tossed aside from a vacation .

6 hard months love but on eggshells. Broke up . Therapie. Got back together 1 month ago. She got into a kind of psychology theory, important for her. I don't believe it...

1 argument. Anxious avoidant triggers from both sides. High alerts. Broke up again. Sooo early even if we had great plans. I was not included in the next vacations.

I think I felt not considered even though she was trying hard to make me fell included. And somehow I felt jealous of her new psychology thing.

Does this text make enough sence for someone to share is thoughts?