u/karnaniSk

Are girls like this actually out there?

A female friend recently told me that I'm crazy after I described the kind of girl I'd ideally want to marry.

My preferences are roughly:

- Pretty/attractive

- Not overweight

- Decently educated

- Virgin

- Has never been to clubs

- Doesn't smoke

- Doesn't drink

- Preferably Rajasthani/Marwari/Gujarati/Sindhi

- No major personality disorders / serious emotional instability

- Less than 2 previous relationships

- Can cook occasionally (not expecting a maid lol)

About me:

- I smoke sometimes, although I don't drink or go clubbing

- 6'1"

- Decent physique — I have abs, but I'm not some fitness model

- I consider myself reasonably attractive

- Currently pursuing CA and should qualify around July next year

- Planning to do an MBA afterwards

- My long-term goal is basically to settle down and get married rather than casually date indefinitely

My friend thinks the combination of requirements is unrealistic and somewhat misogynistic, especially because I'm asking for things like virginity, relationship history, and lifestyle while I myself have smoked.

So I'm genuinely asking:

Am I being misogynistic here, or are these just personal preferences?

And more importantly, is it actually realistic to find a girl who fits most of these criteria? Especially in India among conservative/traditional families?

I'm not asking whether I deserve such a girl — I'm asking whether this demographic realistically exists and whether my expectations are unusually high.

Would appreciate honest answers, including criticism.

Man I have seen women saying that men should show emotions they should show vulnerability and all those fuck ass words men don't do that. What they say & respond to is completely different. They don't like you when you show weakness ,emotions and vulnerability. I didn't understand that in the beginning but now I just experienced this and not my first time. Why is that ? Is everyone lying just like they say about personality?

Bhai, after looking at this AFM paper, I genuinely feel like I should've asked my parents 3 years ago whether they have enough cash locked in for me to do an MBA abroad if I don't end up getting into a top 20 B-school.

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Madarchod system has finally turned this into a complete bloodbath. Previous attempts at least had double digit pass %. After seeing this paper, I'm convinced we're looking at an absolute 0% result. Almost everyone, including the faculties I'm following, is saying the result is going to be zero

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Behenchod, these mfs have finally realised that inflating results in previous attempts created dogshit market conditions. Now these chutiye are trying to "correct" it by butchering pass rates and fucking over an entire generation of students.My CA Final first attempt is in a few months and my ass is too fucking scared. Not because of the syllabus. Not because of the hours. But because I simply don't like failing.Imagine putting 3.5 mfing years into this shit, locking in for thousands of hours, and then some bhosadpanti paper setter decides to pull questions from god knows where.

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At that point you're just sitting there thinking, "What the actual fuck was the point of all this?" BC agar main ye kar raha hoon aur kisi aur ke saath ya kisi aur cheez par time spend nahi kar raha hoon toh uski izzat rakh lo bhai.

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I can absolutely say kisi bkl Einstein ke lode ki aukat nahi hai iss type ke paper ko 3 ghante mein solve karne ki. In chutiye third-world paper setters ko ghar se bahar nikaal ke exam hall mein bitha do aur khud solve karwao, phir pata chalega kitna randi ka bhai level ka paper banaya hai.

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The worst part is that this shit doesn't even look like a one-off. MC tum chutiyo ko samajh nahi aata kya? Further attempts are also likely gonna be a bloodbath because these randi ke bachche seem to have realised that the market needs a correction and now students are the bakras being sacrificed for it.Absolute chutiyapa.

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Just posting this so you can save yours siblings and kids from this madarchod trap. Nobody should be this fucking uncertain about their future after putting years into this shit.