22 [M4F] delhi/anywhere-trying to find someone to grow with
hello I am 22m 5'11(ig this is supposed to be mandatory now a days) introverted kind of guy, I am a nerd for movies animes reading books all of these. I want someone with whom I can share my day to day life who knows me inside out and I know her as well.
I am looking for someone to grow and understanding each other side by side I am not looking for relationship now I am looking for best friend.
For me love is not coffee dates, it's grocery shopping at D Mart. love is not a nice vacation together, it's cleaning the kitchen after you are together. Grand gesture is actually a cheap trick. Because love requires you to sit besides your sick love, worried and not doom scrolling.
Love is not just intimacy, it is the permission to be absolutely vulnerable and to be naked emotionally and mentally. To be able to be your absolute worst and have someone embrace you in that state. Love nurtures, let's you be silly and almost without an exception help you grow better. If it doesn't, you're not in love.
The problem is that people want fancy things in the name of love. They chase ideals that look good from the outside. But love is rarely about the grand stuff. It's about showing up consistently, especially when there's nothing exciting happening. this is my idea of love.
I think long distances are truest form of love. it shows patience and love for each other.
if you are someone like me or finding someone like me or this type of love resonates with you lets have a convo...