Celibacy mindset
Hi, I’m 21 and I’ve never had sex. I’m a good-looking guy and I’ve had things going on with some really attractive girls. They wanted to have sex with me, but I didn’t do it.
The more I stay celibate, the more I feel like I’m missing out on a lot of experiences and things in life. My cousins have a lot of sex, and they seem like more fun, cooler, and more respected guys. Sometimes I feel like what I’m doing is just plain stupid, but another part of me tells me that I’m doing the right thing.
But compared to society, sex is completely normal. Everyone seems to want it, and sometimes I feel like I’m the odd one out here, like I’m the only guy everyone looks at differently.
I honestly don’t know what to do. Should I have sex or stay celibate? Marriage isn’t something I can easily or quickly have right now, and at the same time, having sex and experiencing it at my age is completely normal.
What do you guys think?