r/Semenretention

I have been practising pure semen retention for the last 10 yrs on and off 6 months was the longest. I have experienced so many female attractions before on long streaks but I'm going to share one of the weirdest female attraction story

So It was exactly on day 50 of semen retention when that incident happened i went to my friend's house that day which was located near a college full of beautiful women so that particular day all the females were looking at me like they saw a ghost or something I was sitting on his rooftop area chilling and suddenly i felt someone was staring at me when I looked i realised alot of women from different angles were literally staring at me like they can smell me i can also feel they're horny although I'm not sure but here is where the most weird thing happen, so me and my friend walk out from his house to get some beer and as we walk alot of women that walk pass us were staring at me looking at me like I'm some kind of food or a ghost but then there was one lady she was first looking at my friend eyeing him down instead of me. know this all the women literally every women were looking at me while we're walking by the road even my friend was telling me women be looking at you man today what did you eat in a joking way but then this one particular woman was eyeing him down but then we got separated to buy different items from different stores I was going to buy some stuff from the grocery while he went to get the beer and guess what while I was standing outside the grocery that same girl/ woman/ lady stopped and looked at me like got ya it was like she was confused when me my friend walked together where the energy was coming from but as soon as we got separated she was looking at me with a witchy smile like aha i got you

Like I said it's one of the weirdest female attractions I got out of many what do you guys think

I literally cannot stand it anymore, the siting down in a chair all day and useless menial tasks that take no more than 5 minutes to do. I have so much energy and clarity it just feels like I’m wasting it here behind a useless screen. It’s like putting a tiger in a cage. I eat healthy and lift weights and still the energy is just too much.

I feel like as humans we are devolving, this just goes against our natural state. Honestly thinking about just quitting and moving to a rural area, perhaps a jungle?

Any thoughts would be appreciated

People treat me nicely, some of them even apologize for little things… even if someone just starts to curse me out. I’ll look straight at them and don’t say anything.

Then they’ll stay quiet. Honestly I’ve just been getting respected. And when people laugh at me for sum reason I’ll look at them and they’ll stop laughing immediately. This is crazy.. I’m not even giving them an angry look. I’m just observing that’s all.

I don’t know but on my semen retention respect been given. And when I walk or have a confrontation with someone I have no fear at all. I’m just always calm and observant in these situations. And all of the time they back off within seconds. I genuinely don’t even give them a crazy look at all. All im doing is lookin at them really.

30 min ago I relapsed after 140ish days…I’m not quite sure how to feel about it other than silly.

This was a deliberate relapse solely due to the fact that the prostate pain was so bad it forced me to think about wtf I was doing to my spirit, Christ, and my actual body.

I’m glad there are physical consequences to cheating nature and I’m also glad to have experienced them. Moving forward I plan on starting again and just trying my best regardless of days bc they don’t rlly matter. I don’t feel regret, I feel relief that I don’t have to cheat anymore or lie to myself any longer about what the truth is and what it’s not. If you edge just start over man.

DONT EDGE.

Today marks 60 days of my SR journey and day 10 of my Nofap journey. To be honest, it’s crazy to think that’s it’s been two months since I last busted, but time really flies by when you’re working. Anyways, on this streak I’ve experienced a lot benefits; more strength, glowing skin and eyes, thicker hair, more energy and confidence, etc. However, the biggest one I noticed was the increased attraction and magnetism. Theres been times where random people who I’ve never even meet be off would have whole conversations with me like we had know each other for years. It also feels as if people are very comfortable around me. Simairly, women have been talking to me a lot more (both sexually and platonically) and it’s very easy to talknwith them now as opposed to when I was releasing all the time. overall, I feel way better about myself and I will continue to go even further beyond (on the Goku shit)

Edit: sorry for the confusion, but I’m hear to clear things up. Firstly, yes there were points were I edged for the first 50 days (about 5 times infrequently) but then I realized that that shi was still draining my energy so I stopped. Also, this isn’t AI, but I can’t blame yall since my initial post sounded like chathat

Just discovered this subreddit.

Isn’t it basically the same thing as no fap?

And what makes this subreddit so special?

When I don’t ejaculate, I do feel more energized and alive starting on day 3-4 let’s say.

Ejaculating is natural and if I do ejaculate then yes I feel a little tired and foggy, but that usually goes away after 3 days to the alive and energized.

I also don’t feel anything “extra” “superpowers”

I’ve gone 30+ days at time, so I’m confused what exactly is SR?

Hey brothers,

I’m hitting almost 140 days on this path today. For me, this journey is deeply tied to my daily Bajrangbali Sadhana, where celibacy is the very foundation of my prayer and focus. The first few months brought incredible clarity and positive changes. Physically, everything is stable—just 3 nightfalls over the entire 5 months, which is just the body doing its thing.

But life just threw a massive curveball.

After 7 years of working in a close partnership that kept me financially steady, that chapter just abruptly ended. Honestly, in the past, a shock like this might have made me relapse or look for an escape. But not this time. My resolve is absolute: I am not breaking this streak under any circumstances. This is my lifestyle until marriage and until I reach the position in life I know I’m capable of.

Right now, my main focus is preparing for a major exam to truly unlock my career potential.

I don't want to complain about losing the job. Instead, I want to look at it through a lens of growth and seek your advice:

• Is this a forced redirection? Has this door closed because my upcoming exam and future path require 100% of my energy, without the comfort of a safety net?
• Have any of you experienced a major material loss right when your internal discipline was peaking? How did that space clear the way for your ultimate breakthrough?

It honestly feels less like a loss and more like life clearing out the old to make room for the new. I'd love to hear your perspectives on how to channel this extra energy entirely into my studies and upcoming victory.

Stay strong, brothers. Jai Bajrang Bali.

I’ve been on SR since last December and I had two wet dreams so far. One of them was in March and I had the second one today. Normally, some people claim that it harms the benefits of SR or it entirely break the SR process and it’s counted as P/M too. However, on contrary to these expected negative effects, such as feeling drained (I felt like this for only one day after my wet dream in March), I felt really good after today’s wet dream for some reason. Do you have any comment on this issue? And would you consider it as relapsing?

It took me a decade or two to get here but I've done it. I'm halfway to 90 days and I don't have any intentions of giving up on retention or on myself. For the most part, what I've known best in my life has been failure. I'm trying to turn things around and move forward.

Honest Assessment:
I'm not Superman by any means. None of my health conditions (from tinnitus to hair thinning and beyond), many of which I attribute to a longterm p/m/o+edging habit, have been positively affected yet. Honestly, I don't expect such profound, life-changing results for another couple months. But one thing I've noticed is that I'm much more readily making and maintaining eye contact with strangers; I seem to have something of a renewed sense of confidence and self worth.

I think it's important to keep in mind that our collective reality has been flipped. Oftentimes, up is down, left is right and so on. There is a concerted effort to keep men down and out and that's no longer a conspiracy theory to anyone with eyes to see and ears to hear.

I figure it like this: if you want to thrive like the 1%, you can't survive like the 99%.

Could be confidence, attraction, mental clarity, opportunities, spiritual changes, physical changes or anything.

How long was your streak, and what stood out the most?

Hi guys currently in a 4 month relationship super happy and everything. but been releasing a lot unforutanetly and would like to practise long term SR. She said its okay if we dont have sex but I don't know if shes just saying that because she enjoys sex a lot, and she acutally enjoys my presence and says shes not with me just for sex.

I was thinking of just giving her head and finger to satisfy her but would that be enough? Ive tried Ne Sex but it always just ends up in relapse

Shes super supportive about SR and I just become less of a man when I dont retain. Thoughts guys, and please share your experiences with practising SR in a relationship. Thanks.

I'm 29 currently with my 3rd relationship, I'm not super into flirting or anything like I consider myself on the spectrum of geek but I can pull girls if I want to

I want to understand a few things from seniors and if there are any women here please answer your perspective.

What's your perception of real love the kind of love where the other person will stay by your side even when you are down.

Will that kind of love exist in the real world?

Mostly what's my perception is the girls who stay by the side of their man are the girls whom no one will take so they stay by their man coz they know there is no better option available.

A younger fertile girl will definitely leave you for a better man.

That's how the female nature is.

I don't want to sound super redpill but the 2 girls which I had the first cheated on her bf with me which I later found out (nothing physical) so I was the exploring option so I ended that.

I was more successful and handsome and young than her boyfriend.

The second one was a serious one (nothing physical) but still she couldn't do what I asked for her

I asked her to marry me and I will provide but she didn't agree so for her i was a young and good man but wasn't worthy enough to give up her aspirations.

Both of them I ended in like 4 months each or less

Now this third girl also came into my life due to my success.

I know a man has to be succesful that's the bare minimum.

But as a 29 year old who is conservative.

I want a girl who will stay by my side when things go wrong.

Is that expecting too much in today's age?

Or is it still believable?

Or I should belive that in times of crisis a man will always be alone or his bros will help him.

I m confused as hell.

Just wanted to share something that happend the other night while on a 20 something day streak , (still currently on)

A little back story:

I'm a 26 year old male and have been on and off retention since I was 19.

When I was a kid I remember getting sleep paralysis all the time and not being able to put into words what was happening while I was asleep because I was so young. Eventually that stopped happening once I found out about porn etc.

I had recently made some ground breaking revelations about what was triggering me to relapse with the help of a therapist and what alot of it came down to was people pleasing, not being able to say no to go out with friends and do certain behaviours. (!lcahol and staying out late mainly)

Anyways, the other night I fell alseep and things seemed normal when I woke up with INTENSE urges.

My brain was bring up old crushes and trying to sexualize memories of them in order to get me to relapse. I was able to calm myself down and bring my thoughts back to earth and fall back asleep.

Then, as quick as I went back to sleep I woke up to a cold breeze on my face. I don't have any fans or air conditioners or anything like that in my room.... and it felt like a fucking tornado had spawned in my room.

I was completely paralized and felt some crazy fucking voice whispering something really terrifying but I wasn't speaking a language I could understand.

I was fully concious and the breeze, my hair getting blown back and everything was so tactile. This must of went on for about 10 seconds untill I physically launched myself out of this frozen state and turned my light on, I had teary eyes upon waking and was scared shitless.

It felt like a direct response to the way I've been making so much progress against not giving into lust, and the fact that sort of thing has happend in my past retention journey really makes me feel like demons are real, or something to that effect.

I've also noticed as the streak progresses the dreams usually become blissfull but every now and again I have an absolutely revolting, disgusting, or downright violent dream of people getting killed in really horrific ways.... out of nowhere. Then things go back to normal? Is this some sort of purging of the soul of negatice energy? Anyone else had a similer experience?.

Ive been doing this for years, finally come to terms with the fact I need less calories on SR lol. As a 6'2 210 lb man I only need about 2200-2300 calories. Trying to get lean now and realizing my calories were way too high.

I gain weight easier on SR but that includes muscle and fat.

Anybody else realize they need so much less calories? It's crazy honestly lol.

I've been practicing semen retention for almost 2 years now. Not 100%, but close. I've been getting recurring prostate infections. Silly me, I didn't put the two together. I end up going to the Urologist, get some antibiotics be fine for maybe 6 months, then it happens again. I started doing research. What I found is that yes, semen retention can cause 'clogging' of the pipes which can lead to an infection. The recommendation has been, well, not to retain. My main goal with retention is that it raises my T levels. What I've been trying to find out is whether prostate massage is a treatment for recurring prostate infections, whether release from prostate massage defeats the whole point of retaining, and do the sonic massagers work. I've tried the manual method. Doesn't seem to work for me (ha).

This shit is crazy. Honestly I've been in a flatline for like 85 days+ and have not been experiencing the positive benefits of retention. But a girl came into my life and that opened the flood gates to being aroused for the first time in months. But the crazy thing I noticed is that, even though my libido is back, I have zero urge to masturbate. Like I feel like I don't even remember how to do it. I was also thinking about all the fetishes I was fixated on, my whole life up until a few months ago, and suddenly they don't really do anything for me? I'm like lol nah, whatever, I'd rather just be with a girl and see what happens. Can't believe it's like this, was really impossible to imagine just a few months ago.