I don't know if I'm a femboy or a trans girl and I'm really confused

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Hi everyone,

I've been questioning myself for a while now, and honestly, I'm feeling pretty lost.

For now, I usually call myself a femboy because it's the label that seems to fit the most, but I'm not even sure if that's actually right anymore. Lately I've been wondering if I might actually be a trans girl instead, and I don't really know how to tell the difference.

I know no one here can tell me who I am, and I'm not expecting anyone to. I just wanted to hear from people who have been through something similar.

If you've questioned your gender before, what made things finally click for you? How did you figure out whether you just liked being feminine or whether you actually wanted to live as a woman? Was it something that happened over time, or was there a moment where you just knew?

I'm also not really sure where my sexuality fits into all of this, and sometimes it feels like everything is mixed together, which just makes it more confusing.

I'd really appreciate hearing your stories or any advice you have. Even if you're still figuring things out yourself, I'd love to know what your experience has been.

Thanks for reading. ❤️

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u/kendel_jenner — 21 hours ago

I don't know if I'm a femboy or a trans girl and I'm really confused

I don't know if I'm a femboy or a trans girl and I'm really confused

Hi everyone,

I've been questioning myself for a while now, and honestly, I'm feeling pretty lost.

For now, I usually call myself a femboy because it's the label that seems to fit the most, but I'm not even sure if that's actually right anymore. Lately I've been wondering if I might actually be a trans girl instead, and I don't really know how to tell the difference.

I know no one here can tell me who I am, and I'm not expecting anyone to. I just wanted to hear from people who have been through something similar.

If you've questioned your gender before, what made things finally click for you? How did you figure out whether you just liked being feminine or whether you actually wanted to live as a woman? Was it something that happened over time, or was there a moment where you just knew?

I'm also not really sure where my sexuality fits into all of this, and sometimes it feels like everything is mixed together, which just makes it more confusing.

I'd really appreciate hearing your stories or any advice you have. Even if you're still figuring things out yourself, I'd love to know what your experience has been.

Thanks for reading. ❤️

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u/kendel_jenner — 21 hours ago

🌸 Introverted Femboy Looking for Genuine LGBTQ+ Connections ✨

Hey everyone! 🌸

I'm a 22-year-old femboy from Pakistan looking to make genuine connections within the LGBTQ+ community.

A little about me: I'm pretty introverted at first, but once I'm comfortable, I enjoy deep conversations and getting to know people beyond surface-level small talk. My interests include fitness, fashion, movies, and self-expression. I love discussing everything from workout goals and style ideas to favorite films and life experiences.

I'd especially love to connect with trans girls and other queer people who are looking for friendship, support, and meaningful conversations. Distance isn't really an issue for me—I'm open to meeting people from anywhere.

I believe the best connections start naturally, so whether you're looking for a friend, someone to chat with, or just another queer person who understands the experience of being LGBTQ+ in Pakistan, feel free to reach out.

Tell me a little about yourself when you message—I'd love to hear your story. ✨

Looking forward to meeting some wonderful people here. 💕

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u/kendel_jenner — 22 days ago

🌸 Introverted Fb Looking for Genuine LGBTQ+ Connections ✨

Hey everyone! 🌸

I'm a 22-year-old femboy from Pakistan looking to make genuine connections within the LGBTQ+ community.

A little about me: I'm pretty introverted at first, but once I'm comfortable, I enjoy deep conversations and getting to know people beyond surface-level small talk. My interests include fitness, fashion, movies, and self-expression. I love discussing everything from workout goals and style ideas to favorite films and life experiences.

I'd especially love to connect with trans girls and other queer people who are looking for friendship, support, and meaningful conversations. Distance isn't really an issue for me—I'm open to meeting people from anywhere.

I believe the best connections start naturally, so whether you're looking for a friend, someone to chat with, or just another queer person who understands the experience of being LGBTQ+ in Pakistan, feel free to reach out.

Tell me a little about yourself when you message—I'd love to hear your story. ✨

Looking forward to meeting some wonderful people here. 💕

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u/kendel_jenner — 22 days ago

🌸 Introverted Femboy Looking for Genuine LGBTQ+ Connections ✨

Hey everyone! 🌸

I'm a 22-year-old femboy from Pakistan looking to make genuine connections within the LGBTQ+ community.

A little about me: I'm pretty introverted at first, but once I'm comfortable, I enjoy deep conversations and getting to know people beyond surface-level small talk. My interests include fitness, fashion, movies, and self-expression. I love discussing everything from workout goals and style ideas to favorite films and life experiences.

I'd especially love to connect with trans girls and other queer people who are looking for friendship, support, and meaningful conversations. Distance isn't really an issue for me—I'm open to meeting people from anywhere.

I believe the best connections start naturally, so whether you're looking for a friend, someone to chat with, or just another queer person who understands the experience of being LGBTQ+ in Pakistan, feel free to reach out.

Tell me a little about yourself when you message—I'd love to hear your story. ✨

Looking forward to meeting some wonderful people here. 💕

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u/kendel_jenner — 22 days ago

What's one thing you wish someone had told you when you were questioning your identity?

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For me, I wish someone had told me that it's okay to explore who you are without having everything figured out immediately.

As a femboy, I spent a lot of time wondering if I "fit" into any category before realizing I didn't need to have all the answers.

What's something you wish you'd known earlier? I'd love to hear everyone's thoughts.

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u/kendel_jenner — 24 days ago

What's one thing you wish someone had told you when you were questioning your identity?

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For me, I wish someone had told me that it's okay to explore who you are without having everything figured out immediately.

As a femboy, I spent a lot of time wondering if I "fit" into any category before realizing I didn't need to have all the answers.

What's something you wish you'd known earlier? I'd love to hear everyone's thoughts.

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u/kendel_jenner — 24 days ago

Looking to meet more LGBTQ+/femboy friends

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Hi everyone! I'm looking to connect with more people who share similar interests. Tell me a bit about yourself—your hobbies, favorite games, shows, music, or anything you'd like to share.

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u/kendel_jenner — 28 days ago

I'm really depressed n Sad

I want you guys to hear my story from the start. I'm a guy who still didn't figure it out their gender and sexuality been still confused after that's much of time I have feminine feelings since from a early age but it now always I feel being feminine or tryna look feminine or act like one it's always been mix of both feminine and masculine but I do like being feminine so I don't no what am I

but the one problem I have is that I don't like guys even a thought with a guys creeps me out I tried to think about it but I can't but the surprisingly my journey been started when I am with my guy czn whom I just physically involved not emotionally only physically involved the only thing that I figured it out that I only being attracted to transgirls or the other feminine vibes people like me

I'm confused and depressed I have no friends to talk about this Im super introverted and reserved typa person so there is no chance that I can openly talk about this with anyone

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u/kendel_jenner — 1 month ago