u/kendralai

Has anyone else had this happen? People casually say I look mean, sad, or miserable, which I find insane because I'm literally 4'9" and weigh 90 pounds, and I have a baby face. People always think I'm two to five years younger than I am, so why do people always assume I'm mean I’ve had black men say they were not expecting my voice to sound so proper which I find ironic it’s just the casual micro aggressive

For me, it's my race or ethnicity. I feel like I'm not that ugly just slightly below average or average pretty when I wear makeup and do my hair. Like, I could be pretty or just average if I got a little bit of work done and cleared my acne. And had better social skills But unfortunately, because of my race, even if I got surgery, I would still be considered less attractive than the average woman because of my race, which sucks because it's the one thing I can't change

When I was younger, in my teens, I used to have a preference for yt men. I thought they were attractive, but after years of hearing how much they hate us and don't like us, I've lost all my attraction towards them.

I feel uncomfortable even being near them. It's just the thought of being with someone who probably hates you, or their family hates you, or they might turn on you. Knowing they'll most likely marry someone of their own race and seeing so many young black people posting about "snowbunny" heaven, or seeing TikToks of young black girls talking about how they'll do anything to have a group of frats "run a train" on them, or "white boy summer"

it's honestly the most disgusting, self-hating crap I've ever seen. I just don't understand how any sane black person would want to date, let alone post about, how much they love "playing in the snow" and say they love them, meanwhile they're talking about how much they hate us. It feels like a humiliating ritual.

I'm so sick of this. I just saw a video of an activist who was raised in a r*cist family talking about how her family perceived people using the phrase "black has to stay back, brown is alright, yellow is mellow, but white is always right." Those stupid mfs were so HAPPY to be considered "alright". They were literally saying, "Well, at least I'm alright." They worship yt people like crazy and hate us for no reason. I can’t post my full form but I had a lot more to say.

I'm just wondering... I'm not saying Amazon is the best job in the world, but it's a lot better than most without needing an interview. I just find it hysterical how the same people who complain that no one wants to hire them, or how hard it is to find a job, are the same ones bragging about how they're about to lose theirs or taking advantage of this job – like, "Look at me, I'm a bigger slacker than you are," or "I'm the biggest slacker," like it's an achievement. If you don't want to work here or feel like there's better, then just leave. Stop wasting everyone's time.

I'm black, and I've always wondered this: we've always been good at standing up for ourselves and holding our ground when it comes to white people. So why not the same for other minorities? I'm talking about Latinos and Asians saying the N-word and discriminating against black people in their stores and communities. I find it pretty ironic how a lot of them have parents who are immigrants and benefited from the protests of black Americans, immigrated here, moved to places and neighborhoods with high black populations, and then discriminated against us. I just could never understand why we never or rarely ever call them out on this.