u/keydee_

Hi! So for context, I’m a nurse dating a resident doctor in the same hospital, and no one knows that we have a thing. During work hours, we stay very professional. Like super formal pa nga minsan yung way namin mag-usap, kaya natatawa nalang kami when we’re together kasi super different talaga yung vibes when we’re alone haha.

There were a few times na hindi kami nakakapagpigil makipag-asaran or muntik nang mag-slip up na there’s more to us than we let on. Yung mga ka-duty ko tuloy that time medyo na-curious sa interactions namin ni Doc hahaha. Although may times na mahirap din siya kasi minsan gusto mo lang maging vocal and just act naturally in front of everyone.

Has anyone else been in the same situation as me? Can you guys share your experiences too? (Can be good or bad — I’ll listen, and I can give advice too if I can hehe.)

Hi! So for context, I’m a nurse dating a resident doctor in the same hospital, and no one knows that we have a thing. During work hours, we stay very professional. Like super formal pa nga minsan yung way namin mag-usap, kaya natatawa nalang kami when we’re together kasi super different talaga yung vibes when we’re alone haha.

There were a few times na hindi kami nakakapagpigil makipag-asaran or muntik nang mag-slip up na there’s more to us than we let on. Yung mga ka-duty ko tuloy that time medyo na-curious sa interactions namin ni Doc hahaha. Although may times na mahirap din siya kasi minsan gusto mo lang maging vocal and just act naturally in front of everyone.

Has anyone else been in the same situation as me? Can you guys share your experiences too? (Can be good or bad — I’ll listen, and I can give advice too if I can hehe.)

Hi! So for context, I’m a nurse dating a resident doctor in the same hospital, and no one knows that we have a thing. During work hours, we stay very professional. Like super formal pa nga minsan ng way namin mag-usap, kaya natatawa nalang kami when we’re together kasi super different talaga yung vibes when we’re alone haha.

There were a few times na minsan hindi kami nakakapagpigil makipag-asaran or muntik nang mag-slip up na there’s more to us than we let on. Yung mga ka-duty ko tuloy that time medyo na-curious sa interactions namin ni Doc hahaha. Although may times na mahirap din siya kasi minsan gusto mo lang maging vocal and just act naturally in front of everyone.

Has anyone else been in the same situation as me? Can you guys share your experiences too? (Can be good or bad — I’ll listen, and I can give advice too if I can hehe.)

Hello! Hoping someone can help. I’m currently in a situationship with a 1st year resident. I’m not an MD, pero working din in the healthcare field so I can somehow understand how busy their schedule is, up to a certain degree.

Gets ko naman na most of the time sa ospital talaga iikot mundo nila. It’s just that sometimes nahihirapan akong i-voice out yung concerns ko sa kanya because I don’t want to add to his stress, and I feel like wala naman akong right to demand anything hahaha.

There were times na hinihintay ko yung updates niya, kahit simpleng good morning or good night lang, just to know that he’s okay, pero minsan lumilipas yung isang araw na walang communication. I know he’s trying his best naman whenever he has free time kasi bumabawi rin talaga siya.

Pero minsan nahihirapan din ako kasi natotoxic din naman ako sa duty, but I still try to squeeze him into my schedule. Ayoko naman isumbat yun sa kanya, pero nagiguilty ako with how I’m feeling right now.

To those who have experience dating someone in the medical field and are facing the same problem, how were you able to overcome it? :((

EDIT:

I think some of you misunderstood my post po hehe. 😅 I understand po how demanding and extremely hard residency is. That's why I haven’t even brought this up to him because I don’t want to add to his stress or sound demanding, especially since wala pa naman po kaming label. I was just sharing that sometimes it gets emotionally difficult on my end too, and I wanted to hear from people who’ve experienced the same situation because I really like this guy po. Sorry po if my post came across the wrong way. Pero I really appreciate your comments po.