u/kievz007

I don't know how much that ties into confidence specifically, I'm new to this sub and just need to talk to someone since I'm really overwhelmed. I'm tired of talking to chatgpt pretending it cares, I need human advice. 19M, I had been been quiet and shy my whole childhood but for the past year or so I've learned to leave my comfort zone and become more social. I don't have many friends to hang out with consistently and also don't have any dating history or frequent contact with women. I have a little rule which is to always say yes when someone invites me to go somewhere, even if that someone is already with other people I don't know. This isn't to please people, it's to help expose myself out of my comfort zone and become more social. I think I do a decent job and fitting in and conveying confidence despite my introverted nature, and I really enjoy it too. So one problem I've been encountering is emotional attachement towards people and groups when I have a good time with them, especially when there are girls. I start replaying every moment afterwards and what I should've said or done, and that ties back to me not being bold like other guys who immediately click with girls in such settings

Does anyone else deal with that, or has already dealt with it and "beaten" it? It's really exhausting, I start overthinking about whether or not I did everything I could do and basically ruin the satisfaction. Is the answer really just exposing myself to such social situation as much as possible so as to get used to it? And how do you build up the confidence to integrate a friend group as an outsider and avoid getting marginalized as a "who invited this guy" person?

Such an unnecessary tackle, I feel so angry every time I remember that sight. Musiala is clearly still traumatized and scared to take risks like he did before. It's painful for us to watch but he needs to play as much as possible to rebuild confidence. We should not switch up on him like other fanbases do to their stars, because this will only make things worse. Have some faith and give him time, it is no longer about physical fitness but about mental and psychological fitness for him to find his courage again

The sun will shine on us again ❤️🤍

Hi everyone, I have a big sea on the edge of my map and have 2 ports far from each other along the coast. They used to work great until all of a sudden ships stopped coming in and trucks stopped even going to the harbors (vanilla ones). I checked the paths, they're all unobstructed. One thing I suspect may have caused it is the usage of the Move it mod on the harbors to line them up neatly, but idk.

At some point, I deleted all harbors and rebuilt them and only one port worked but the ships were taking a weird path so I changed it and then they stopped coming completely again. Anyone been getting this issue? How can it be solved? I'm currently not next to my laptop but when I do get access to it I'll try to upload some pictures if it helps