How to stop attracting creeps :1
I hope this is the right place to post, I dont want to seem all weird and pick me by asking this but it's a wall ive hit over and over and been told over and over.
So im 21, ive tried a couple times to get into dating but ive had a major problem by only attracting creepy men who like little girls, which upsets me. I dont really dress childish, but I do lean towards more darker soft feminine (I only wear things like dresses/skirts/shorts). I hate to admit and say this because I feel weird but I am pretty small i think, im 5'2 and not very full figured at all. (Lots of little boy comments lol) but by being this way, no matter how I dress I attract dudes who only use me to fulfill some kind of fantasy of being with a child as disgusting as that is.
I've frequently been called a loli, and the last guy I talked too I stopped talking to him because all he said to me was "yer so smolll omg so cutie so smoll and wittle and petite" and even as normal as he seemed at first just really eventually started leaning into being a creep and getting worse.
The thing is, is I have nothing against size differences/age gaps, I am grown and thats not really what I care about but with men it seems like theres a really fine line between me apparently being pedo bait and someone just actually liking petite women.
has anyone else had this problem :1 how do I fix it and be aware of who to avoid, I already kind of have a real fear of men and this doesn't make it better. Ive never dated and this is half the reason so im really clueless and just keep putting myself in shitty places without meaning too, if this isn't the place for this please lmk! thank you :,]