▲ 18 r/AITAH

AITAH for wanting to use our neighbours car

Our neighbours (mother, father, adult daughter) are on a holiday for the rest of August. We were asked to water the plants in their garden. Upon leaving their daughter told me we could use their car during their holiday. She left the keys in their kitchen. Today I wanted to take our daughter to a playground a bit further away with their car. My GF got mad and said I exploited their friendliness. She insisted I rent a car like we usually do (we don't own a car but use several services to easy rent a car). I got mad as well because I really don't understand. A short ride, I fill up the gas afterwards, I see no problem. I also checked in with the mother if the insurance would be a problem if I drove. She insisted it wasn't. Am I the asshole?

EDIT: thanks for all the responses. Lot of you pointed out the risk of damage. Valid but this is not GF's concern. She thinks the neighbors are overly friendly. I think that's thinking too much about what some one means. I would only drive a short distance and would fill up the car afterwards. But I didn't want to escalate this so decided not to drive the car. But I was just curious if I missed anything that I should've taken into consideration.

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u/kingjaynl — 11 days ago
▲ 9 r/CM0102

My savegame crashed in 2025 - help!

https://preview.redd.it/kkytcc8vpqhh1.png?width=388&format=png&auto=webp&s=1930290f64909ac121508425b60f91bf3aa94d92

This is my beloved savegame in Italy where I managed Fiorentina, Udinese, Inter and Milan. Also was the national coach for a while. Was really happy in this game and wanted to bring it to 2026. But in August 2025 the game just suddenly stops. No error message, nothing. The game just stops. I was dumb enough to save it right before that moment, so now when I start the savegame it just stops immediately. I tried to modify the game with the Save Changer from Nicks Patcher but that gives an out of memory error message. Are my beloved Italian players gone forever or does anybody has a last minute Infantino escape rule so I can keep on playing?

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u/kingjaynl — 14 days ago

Next six months I'll be busy with cleaning this big cyste before an operation will remove the single tooth and the cyste. Hopefully without hitting a nerve.

u/kingjaynl — 4 months ago
▲ 3 r/claude

So I just wanted to upgrade to Max so I would be able to finish a project, but now I have to verify my identity before I can do anything else. Is upgrading to Max a trigger for this verification? Is there anyway to remove this requirement and go back to just using Claude again? Did some of you comply with the verification? I'm very reluctant to comply, but also want to keep using Claude. Any thoughts, advise or workarounds are much appreciated.

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u/kingjaynl — 4 months ago

Ik moet dit gewoon even ergens delen. Ik ging naar het ziekenhuis om een verstandskies te laten trekken. Die ingreep ging goed, maar tijdens het maken van de röntgenfoto's ontdekten ze een grote cyste. Het blijkt dat er op die plek nog maar een paar millimeter bot in mijn kaak over is en dat deze elk moment kan breken.

Ik moet volgende week terug om een opening te laten maken, zodat de cyste kan leeglopen. Dit moet ik vervolgens een paar maanden lang dagelijks uitspoelen met een spuit, voordat ik eindelijk geopereerd kan worden. Daarvoor moet ik volledig onder narcose en er is een risico op zenuwschade.

Ik voel me lichamelijk precies hetzelfde als vanochtend, maar ik ben echt enorm geschrokken over mijn kaak.

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u/kingjaynl — 4 months ago

I just need to share this somewhere. I went to the hospital to get a wisdom tooth removed. That procedure went fine, but while taking X-rays, they discovered a large cyst. It turns out my jaw only has a few millimeters of bone left in that area and could break at any time.

I have to go back next week to have an opening made so the cyst can drain. I'll have to flush it daily with a syringe for a few months before I can finally get surgery. I'll need to go under general anesthesia for that, and there's a risk of nerve damage.

I feel exactly the same physically as I did this morning, but I'm really freaked out about my jaw right now. Could use some reassurance or support at the moment.

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u/kingjaynl — 4 months ago

I just need to share this somewhere. I went to the hospital to get a wisdom tooth removed. That procedure went fine, but while taking X-rays, they discovered a large cyst. It turns out my jaw only has a few millimeters of bone left in that area and could break at any time.

I have to go back next week to have an opening made so the cyst can drain. I'll have to flush it daily with a syringe for a few months before I can finally get surgery. I'll need to go under general anesthesia for that, and there's a risk of nerve damage.

I feel exactly the same physically as I did this morning, but I'm really freaked out about my jaw right now. Could use some reassurance or support at the moment.

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u/kingjaynl — 4 months ago