u/kittycornxx

i wanna get one so bad but they're 100k, im gonna try investing money into my account 🫩

Hi, I recently got a interest in motorcycles and cars, and since bikes are cheaper than cars in gas, and pricing etc. I was wondering what I should get after I get my L for riding?

I want to go with either the honda brand, or Yamaha, and with a sports bike, mostly because I'm in love with the designs they have for sports bikes.

Greatly appreciate the help!

So I F22 was with a M31, Lets call him "M"

He always made me feel like i had to apologize whenever he got upset about something,

I do things unintentional sometimes due to my 22q, and he "forgets" that its not intentional..

What I feel like I might have done wrong was try to initiate the issue at a wrong time..

We broke up due to my disability effecting our relationship, - he was the one who dumped me (good riddance)

Throughout the relationship he would ghost me for days whenever we got into a fight, after we broke up i realized that he was using my feelings against me, and when i stood up against him for it he started throwing a fit in text saying that "hes frustrated"

and he used the fact that he reconnected with his mom and sister to not conversate with me, the topic that we had was a very light one and not stress inducing if he acted like an adult.

I got tired of his behaviour and wrote him an essay about how i felt, then he got mad and started talking shit about me behind my back with some of my friends, but they got my back and wont take his side.

Whenever i stand up for something he always paints me as a "bad guy" then calls me the "emotionally abusive" one.. like Im a human with feelings too? You arent a saint because you treated me like shit when we had fights.

Partners should have conversations right? He never asks for space, just ghosts me right on the spot, I grew fed up with it and decided to block him after he started ignoring me.

Yes I owe him money, n hes using that to "gatekeep" communication.

Its going to take me a while to pay him back because i borrowed quite a bit of money, im disabled and self employed, so I get paid every month.

When we were together he got mad at me whenever i did chores wrong, and he would get upset and give me tension / anger. Would not be patient with me at all..

I kind of regret the relationship and also dont at the same time, because we both had a lot of "firsts" with eachother.

I just grew tired with how he was treating me, Now hes acting mad and upset because I told him off?

This all started when I told him to stop telling me about his love interests because I still had feelings for him - I had to block him for my mental health due to potential BPD Im more traumatized from him and now trying to find a therapist..

So.. reddit, AITA?

- Ill give updates if me and him ever have a conversation again, but until then I doubt we will, i blocked his number too and only have him unblocked on telegram just in case he wants to apologize.

A few notes:

- He would ghost me for days whenever he got upset at me and would NOT communicate until after I call him

- Whenever I visited his place in Seattle he would get upset at me for doing chores wrong (using my disability against me when I am still learning things)

- When I spoke up about something he would get upset and blow me off

all my life I have never found someone good yet, my heart is just really damaged and I keep finding these bad people.

So I F22 was with a M31, Lets call him "M"

We broke up due to my disability effecting our relationship,

Throughout the relationship he would ghost me for days whenever we got into a fight, after we broke up i realized that he was using my feelings against me, and when i stood up against him for it he started throwing a fit in text saying that "hes frustrated"

and he used the fact that he reconnected with his mom and sister to not conversate with me, the topic that we had was a very light one and not stress inducing if he acted like an adult.

I got tired of his behaviour and wrote him an essay about how i felt, then he got mad and started talking shit about me behind my back with some of my friends, but they got my back and wont take his side.

Whenever i stand up for something he always paints me as a "bad guy" then calls me the "emotionally abusive" one.. like Im a human with feelings too? You arent a saint because you treated me like shit when we had fights.

Partners should have conversations right? He never asks for space, just ghosts me right on the spot, I grew fed up with it and decided to block him after he started ignoring me.

Yes I owe him money, n hes using that to "gatekeep" communication.

Its going to take me a while to pay him back because i borrowed quite a bit of money, im disabled and self employed, so I get paid every month.

When we were together he got mad at me whenever i did chores wrong, and he would get upset and give me tension / anger. Would not be patient with me at all..

I kind of regret the relationship and also dont at the same time, because we both had a lot of "firsts" with eachother.

I just grew tired with how he was treating me, Now hes acting mad and upset because I told him off?

This all started when I told him to stop telling me about his love interests because I still had feelings for him - I had to block him for my mental health due to potential BPD Im more traumatized from him and now trying to find a therapist..

So.. reddit, AITA?

- Ill give updates if me and him ever have a conversation again, but until then I doubt we will, i blocked his number too and only have him unblocked on telegram just in case he wants to apologize.

Says it all in the tittle, let me know yall's advice, kinda in this situation right now, but his gf is such a vibe and i feel like ive known her forever :P

Im still friends with the guy too ofc, cuz im a mature adult LOL

but lmk!!

i had a crush on a guy that i met through a friend,

we met at a bbno$ concert and we clicked as friends.. but later on i started catching feelings..

He gives off perfect boyfriend traits, always looking out for you etc.

But recently i went on vacation and i found out he doesnt feel the same way.. he's now trying to date someone else and im a little upset about it, but I've become friends with the person hes into and now they're trying to set me up with someone lol... so win win i guess for now?

Is it normal that i have a bit of hope that something could happen in the future with me and my crush? like maybe they wont work out and he catches feelings for me? or maybe im just delulu lol...

anyway just a little ramble i wanted to get off my chest.