Dog/Dog aggression - how to stop the staring?
I'll start by saying I'm following Larry Krohns methods very heavily with my two pit mixes fighting in the home. Have done a paid call with him, but it's hard to pin him down for follow up calls.
Issue I'm looking for some clarification on revolves specifically around the younger of my two dogs. We've had multiple fights and incidents, that seemingly have been started by one or the other dog. Can't really say who the aggressor is at this point. However dogs have been separated for 6~ weeks and we are working on socializing.
The problem I'm having, is that my older dog seemingly ignores the younger one in these socialization attempts (walks, one dog kenneled in the same room other dog out, through baby gates in the home), but the younger pup has a "staring problem". Even on walks when we're 50' away from the other dog, he is still just completely focused on him. In the kennel, he will stand, not relax, and just lock eyes directly on the older dog, to the point the constant contact will eventually initiate them aggressively barking at eachother. Sometimes he will even let out little growls, which pisses older dog off causing the shouting matches.
I want to know the correct and proper balanced method of correcting these stares, and how to get the younger dog to ignore the older one like the older dog seems good at.
I'm relatively new to balances training, and punishments, so I don't want to screw it up.
Other points worth mentioning. Older dog is E collar trained. Working on conditioning the young one now (Larry Krohns book method). I don't use prong collars. They both are very obedient, understand and respond well to NO, both very much attached to me and focused on me, play very well tug fetch etc. older dog is not kennel trained and has bad confinement anxiety, which we are working on so eventually we can have him crated with the younger one in the room instead of the other way around.
Socialization is hard with my wife and I's work schedules, and 4 year old who is absolutely terrified of having both dogs in the same room after witnessing a few of the fights. We 100% need to do more walks, and find ways to make socialization work so we can progress, this staring problem is just making things more difficult.