Asked for a rec letter and was told that I could write it myself

Okay so I asked my history teacher if he could write me a rec letter and he agreed but since he's one of the more lazier teachers, he told to just write one for myself and he'll endorse it. How does that work?

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u/kurapikacola — 12 hours ago

i told my mom about my eating disorder

i told my mom about my eating disorder.

i mentioned that from time to time id engage in unhealthy habits such as eating <500kcal a day plus working out for 2+ hours until id pass out. this behavior would come and go from time to time since i was twelve.

she didn’t care and just laughed at me and i honestly didn’t know what to say or do?? like what type of reaction is that??

my whole life she was always stressing to me about how i can’t be fat or overweight.

i remember when i was younger and i had just eaten a handful of pop corn after dinner and i wanted some ice cream so i took two scoops of cherry almond ice cream and as soon as my mom saw me leave the kitchen with the bowl she ran towards me and started berating me and telling me i was going to become obese and fat and that popcorn and ice cream was too much. she made me dump out the ice cream in the sink whilst shaming me and telling me that i “wanted” to become fat.

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u/kurapikacola — 1 month ago

i wish my mom wasn't here.

she's the literal definition of a bad mom. all she does is sit around the house doing NOTHING and spending literally THOUSANDS of dollars each week (not joking) on random shit she finds on the internet like health powders that can "cure cancer." she find every little reason to pick at what im doing, from yelling at me to do my homework (that i've already been done with HOURS ago), to literally just going into my room and JUST to tell me that i'm ugly as if she's not a fifty six year old woman talking to her own kid. i genuinely cant stand her, all she does is whine and whine and whine. she's literally draining my family's finances and sitting on her lazy ass all day doing jack shit and sleeping. she always leaves her dishes out in the middle of the night and me or some other family member has to take care of them. all she fucking does is critique others without reflecting on herself. she is the epitome of evil and genuinely fucking brain dead i hate her so much. she rants about how she's a "good person" and that i should reflect off of that. bitch i don't want to be a jobless fifty-six year old woman who's draining her family's finances and livelihood.

im so tired of being her punching bag whenever shes in a bad mood or whenever a small inconvenience happens. im so tired of her losing her temper over the most stupid shit. im so tired of her terrible spending habits. we literally have over THREE 2ft by 5ft wide piles of her "stuff" that she bought off from online market places. my house looks like a hourders den and im so fucking tired of being scared to invite my friends over because of how our house looks.

im so tired of her not giving a fuck about me or my health. im so tired of her trying to sneak in random powders of "superfoods" into my meals that she bought off of sketchy websites that promise to do health miracles.

im so fucking tired of her complaining about me when all she does is sulk around all day and blame her daughter for her issues.

i genuinely can't stand her emotionally and physically abusive behavior im so done.

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u/kurapikacola — 1 month ago

i’m so done with my family

i’m so done with my dad constantly making me feel less than myself im so done with my family not doing anything whenever my mom hits me im so done with everything

you can’t call yourself a dad when you tell your own child that “your mom beats you for a reason” “you’re wasting my time by crying” “you’re fucking crazy” “you’re a piece of shit”

you can’t call yourself a dad if you don’t do anything to stop your fucking wife from trying to break down your daughters door with a hammer and end up breaking her door knob just because your daughter left the rice cooker lid open for too long

you can’t call yourself a dad if you tell your daughter that you can’t show up to her band concerts because it “isnt much to look at” whilst showing up to EVERY SINGLE ONE of your sons concerts and bragging about it

you can’t call yourself a dad if EVERYTIME you walk into a room that has your daughter and your son, you completely don’t acknowledge your daughter and you only greet your son by saying “my dearest son”

you can’t call yourself a dad when you force your eight year old child to bike around the whole block twenty times as a punishment when she accidentally biked the wrong direction when she asked you to teach her how to bike as a way to spend time with you

you can’t call yourself a dad if you take away your daughters study materials right before the ap exams as a form of “punishment” then being harsh on her about her grades

you can’t call yourself a dad if you lock your daughter in the bathroom with the lights off at 2:00am because she used her phone at the dinner table

you can’t call yourself a mom if you beat your daughter for not doing EXTRA CREDIT homework in fifth grade despite her already having straight As

you can’t call yourself a mom if you tried to hurt her with a hammer because she left the rice cooker open for five minutes

you can’t call yourself a mom if you just stand by whilst watching your daughter being dragged by the arms by her dad as a “form of punishment” in KINDERGARTEN

you can’t call yourself a mom if you waste away $15k on stupid mlm products that claim that they can “cure cancer”

you can’t call yourself a mom if your own daughter overheard you say “i really wish i hadn’t given birth to her” to her dad over the phone

you can’t call yourself a mom if the only time you’ve ever apologized to her was when you thought you were dying

you can’t call yourself a mom if you repeated call her ugly to her face unprovoked

you can’t call yourself a mom if you lash out at her and hit her for “not doing her homework” despite already having done her homework and just wanting an excuse to be violent

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u/kurapikacola — 1 month ago

My dad said that any other kid would be lucky to have a dad like him

Okay so for some context, my one of my friend’s closet relatives passed and she invited me to the service. I asked my dad if I could go and he says yes.

When we get to the place, he parks and tell me that it would be inappropriate for me to go since I wasn’t close with said relative and that it would be inappropriate for a teenager (16) to go to an event like this and he told me that I shouldn’t go. So I said okay and while we’re leaving he’s telling several things and I eventually bring up that I wanted to go because she was the one who invited me and he all of a sudden said that I should go because I was invited and asked me why I left that detail out. I told him that I didn’t think that it was important and that I assumed he knew that I was invited since I sent the invitation to him on messages.

Then he goes on and says that it’s common sense and that if other of my friend’s friends are going then I should’ve mentioned that, I again explained that I didn’t think it was an important detail and he starts telling me that it’s appropriate for me to go only if she invited other teens my age and I said that she did. He then says that I should’ve gone and that I should’ve told him that detail then I tell him again that I didn’t know it was important since, by the way he described it, it sounded like it applied universally because he said that it was inappropriate for kids/teens to go to services like these because I didn’t actually know the individual.

He then says “I told you that you should only go if other teens your age are going so why didn’t you say that?” and I told him that he literally said that just now and that he didn’t say that earlier and then we ended up getting in a big argument.

During our argument, he said things like “I do everything for you,” “someone should record you crying and post it so you can see what you look like,” “the reason why your mom beats you is because of your bad attitude (yes he said this VERBATIM)” I told him that he’s only saying this stuff to make me upset and that he was acting like a child and he said that other kids would be lucky to have a dad like him.

I honestly drk what to do and I’m so so so sick of having such a shitty relationship with the rest of my family so what should I do

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u/kurapikacola — 1 month ago
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AICE Euro AL Paper 3

Hi guys, I took AICE Euro A level Paper 3 today and I was wondering if it would still be possible to get an A* if I didn't really talk about the similarities between the original extract's interpretation and another. In total, I introduced three other contrasting historian interpretations, but, for my main interpretation where I was going to compare it to that of the original extract I didn't state any similarities (not on purpose, I genuinely just forgot).

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u/kurapikacola — 2 months ago

i’ve noticed that almost everybody thinks everything is embarassing or that doing certain actions makes u automatically weird when it’s the most normal or human thing ever

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u/kurapikacola — 2 months ago