Image 1 — 18F should i grow my hair out?
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18F should i grow my hair out?

I really liked my pixie cut but i am over it so i am growing it out. I am thinking of a short bob with a forelock but i don't know. I really like my short hair.

This is 3 months of growth by the way.

(I AM LOOKING FOR ADVICE NO CREEPY MEN PLEASE)

u/kyitlyns — 20 hours ago
▲ 0 r/Nurses

Is it worth to study nursing?

Hi guys! My question is for the nurses in the US, Canada and Australia. I am from Turkey and just got into university exam. I am thinking of studying nursing in English here since i heard about how it is easier to move abroad and they get a really generous salary compared to my country. It is not just for the salary but you get me 😅

I am asking cause in my country nursing is not really a respected job and the system doesn't really work for our favor. My biggest dream was always to move abroad for better circumstances and opportunities.

Before you ask i alread have B2 level english (i am 18) and i will be working on it more in uni! The unis i consider are in Istanbul and in English. Plus they have accreditation.

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u/kyitlyns — 21 hours ago

Insanlar nasil arkadas ediniyor? (Evet ciddi ciddi bunu soruyorum)

Kucuklugumden beri arkadas edinmekte zorlaniyorum. Iliskilere hic girmiyim bile. Kucukken bundan hoslaniyordum. Arkadasligin cikar iliskisinden ibaret oldugunu dusunuyordum bu yuzden tek basima takilmak daha guvenli geliyordu. Ama bu sene 18'ime girdim ve canima tak etti. Hic arkadasim yok su an ve deneyince de cok bocaliyorum. Takintiliyim sanirim o yuzden konusurken insanlarin mimiklerine ne soyledigine cok dikkat ediyorum (kendiminkiler de dahil). Karsi tarafi rahatsiz etmekten cok korkuyorum o yuzden bunu yapiyorum sanirim. Bilmiyorum gercekten nasil duzelirim ama uniyi de boyle gecirirsem ne yaparim bilmiyorum. Help pls.

(Bu konuda terapiste gittim. Bir boka yaramiyor.)

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u/kyitlyns — 4 days ago
▲ 74 r/AITH

AITH for not wanting to take care of my autistic brother

I (18 year old female) have a younger brother (10 years old) with mild to severe autism and possible mental deficiency. My brother was diagnosed with atypical autism at 2,5 years old but my brother did not have a lot of progress throughout the years. He is high needs and non verbal so he needs attention 24/7.

I think i need to explain my family situation for you to understand me. My parents got an arranged marriage and realized too late that they were not for each other. My dad and my grandmother (dad's mom) used to criticize my mother all the time. And my mom also comes from a family with an abusive and absent father. She also lost her mom abruptly at a young age. All of this ended up making her really depressed. I don't really remember those years but after my brother was born my mother stayed at a mental hospital for a year. Which affected me and my brother in ways. My parents couldn't divorce after my brother's diagnosis. It got better over the years but there was always arguments and tension in our house.

I plan to study nursing in English in Istanbul. Then work here a couple years before i move abroad to work but where i am from nursing is not really respectable job plus my parents don't want me to leave.

Don't get me wrong i love my brother and family partially but i am always on tenterhooks in this house.

Now that i am 18 and will go to college i finally have an actual plan to escape this house. But they want me to study pharmacy then return home to work at my homecity while looking after my brother after they die. I don't want any responsibility of their shit anymore. I am very afraid of being opposite of them since i always tried to not cause any problems but i feel like if i don't oppose them this time i will never get to say no to anyone ever again.

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u/kyitlyns — 5 days ago