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Problem/goal: Walang usad ang relationship.
Context: I’m F27, partner is M25
After more than 10 years in our relationship, we’ve spent half of our lives together. Seen each other’s flaws, ups, and downs. Sabi nga ng nanay ko, “kasal nalang ang kulang”. Pero paano kami ikakasal kung wala akong nakikitang galaw ng partner ko?
I’m already working for years na and siya? He’s just.. there.
I know, bakit kasi nakipagrelasyon sa mas bata sakin yada-yada-ya, pero we’re already here. I can’t take back ten years of my life. So.. I don’t want to get to details, pero I found out na hindi pa pala siya nakakagraduate ng college. Nagkaproblema sa isang subject niya back then and his prof told him na “okay na, ako bahala” then we found out na that prof resigned and wala siyang grade. He’s supposed to graduate 2 years ago pa pero everytime sinasabi kong asikasuhin dati pa, kesyo okay na daw ganyan pero never did an effort to make sure. Then last year, nagka medical emergency ang family nila to the point na he’s always needed at home to take care of a family member.
My parents are willing to sponsor his tuition para makagraduate siya, just because they want a better future for the both of us. Alam kasi nilang issue ang pera sakanila bc of the medical emergency I mentioned. Mama also said, if ako lang daw sana ang lalaki walang kaso kasi ako naman ang bubuhay sakanya, pero since siya ang lalaki tutulungan nila siya na ayusin ang buhay niya para di kami mahirapan. I told him to take it, since my papa (which was very very very strict but learned to like my bf) also said na he will sponsor his board exam fees, and also willing to have him enrolled for education units to be able to take the LET para magkaroon ng eligibility para mas madali makahanap ng work. Gets ko yung utang na loob ganyan, pero I think he’s very lucky to have been offered such help kasi ako mismo di ako binigyan ng tatay ko ng pantuition when I was taking my masters degree hahaha.
Ngayon, napansin niya na I’ve been treating him differently since my mother opened up the help that they want to give him. Kesyo mahirap daw kasi gusto ng magulang ko ng someone successful for me, which I agree kasi that’s also what I want, pero instead of taking that as a motivation to do better eh self pity naman ang bagsak. I also told him, tingin ba niya bata pa ako to be brainwashed? Kasi my mother is already asking for an apo kaya pinepressure ko rin daw siya dahil sinabi ni mama. Tho I agree na I felt pressured, eh 2024 palang naman ay medyo nakukuha na niya ang pika ko dahil sa mga desisyon niya sa buhay (nagstop siya magreview for boards, dahil pala wala pa siyang tor pero diko alam na yun pala ang rason) I just kept reminding myself how much I love him. He even tried working in retail pero resigned after a month coz mahirap daw. Tapos gusto pa niyang mag abroad kasi malaki ang sahod as factory worker?! Nasasayangan parents ko sa inaral niya. Ngayon, sinasabi ko kunin na niya yung offer na parents ko. Inis lang ako dahil nirarason saakin na he can’t leave his family since they need him pero kagagaling lang niya sa inuman (and almost every other day sila nag iinom ng mga tropa niya na kaparehas niya ang estado ngayon, walang trabaho).
I don’t know what to do anymore. A part of me wants to leave his unmotivated ass already. Tried talking to him a lot of times na pero parang pasok sa isang tenga, labas sa kabila lang. I know he loves me, its just that we’re not getting any younger.
[Edit: Just finished watching the whole video. I added more at the end.]
During MJS’s 12-minute solo performance, she had a wardrobe malfunction. These things happen unintentionally. However, while people would probably cover themselves up, Miss Jade made a deliberate and conscious decision to pull her top down. Her breasts was exposed to the 1,500 audiences present, including minors, the marketing team, and the executives of SM Southmall, the sponsors, and the very clients that has paid the Playhouse to make the event possible. ELQ reiterated that while he believe in the Freedom of Expression because that’s what drag is, but artists have the responsibility to make sure to exercise that freedom in the right time, right place, and right audiences.
After the performance, ELQ said that what happens in the DITS, stays in DITS. People were cooperative, social media was clear, and Jade was asked not to post about the incident, to which her and her manager agreed. But few days after, Jade still went to upload her performance on her yt channel.
The incident has put so much conflict, upset, and pressure with ELQ and the client’s relationship. Negotations happened, amendments to the contracts, until DITS’s most valuable client has decided not to renew the services at the Playhouse. Wherein it eventually led to the mutual decision to permanently dissolve and terminate the DITS brand.
[ Edit starts here:]
The screeshot that circulated regarding the “minura ni ELQ si Jade sa pm”, ELQ said something like “Tangina mo talaga, bobo kaba? Di mo manlang inisip yung mga mawawalan ng trabaho sa katangahan mo?”, then proceeded to block her everywhere. That one angry message was a result of his crashout, which I seem valid as he’s a business owner. He then proceeded to remove Jade from all shows of The Playhouse and in Interstellar. Said that he just doesn’t want to work with her anymore because of what happened, and that is a business decision. Naturally, he had to check about his legal options, where he was advised that he can press criminal charges on top of civil charges. He then decided not to do anything, no demand letter, he just want peace. He started building himself up again, which he thought that the story had already ended there, or so he thought.
MJS appeared on Balagbagan Podcast by Tuesday Vargas, where Jade brought up the issue voluntarily, without even asked or prompted (the part where they talked about the issue was already deleted), and even though Jade did not mention anyone’s names or names are bleeped out, people are fast to figure out that it was Eva. Jade’s narration of the story was accurate he said, as it was really a wardrobe malfunction, that she proceeded to pull her top down. Jade mentioned that she felt empowered, and it was her advocacy to normalize bewbs, then proceeded to mention that she received very hateful words from Eva. This again, caused Eva to have another anxiety attack because he don’t get why Jade did it. He also felt that his privacy was violated because Jade included a private conversation of them, and also violated her NDA with them. Eva had to deal with so much psychological, material, and financial losses because of this incident and yet, he’s the one being dragged, while Jade did not even show any remorse of what happened.
Jade’s manager reached out to Eva. He then played the voice message that he sent to Jade’s manager.
“(Verbatim) Bakla siya, tangina niya. Okay na nga ako eh. Meron na ngang inoffer tapos may lumabas na ganito diba? I mean, te, nakausap mo na ba siya? I don’t wanna react to this now, I don’t wanna react on my emotions. I think I’m gonna take a break. I’m gonna take a step back from this. Kasi pag ito cinonfront ko, it’s not gonna be nice. Masyado nang magulo yung drag scene natin since -redacted- eh I don’t want to be a part of this bullsht. If you can find a way to talk to Jade and shush that up, otherwise talaga I’m gonna take legal actions against Jade.”
Within the next 24hrs, House of MJS worked tirelessly to take down copies of the interview, reached out to Ms. Tuesday to have a re-edit and reupload of the podcast. They also took time to report and take down comments that has Eva’s name on it, which Eva claimed that these are all voluntary efforts by Jade’s side. There’s nothing I could’ve asked for, Eva said.
Then the news of Jade’s attempt broke out. Within hours, swarm of hateful msgs and threats to Eva’s safety was sent to all of his socials, including his work and personal emails, accusing him for being the culprit. He took a detox and removed himself from the situation, as advised by his close friends and psychiatrist.
He’s choosing peace, refusing to be associated to any narrative that relates him to Jade or to the incident, even if Jade mentioned the terms “Oppressor”, “Gaslighter”, & “Manipulator” where it further insinuates and incites the public with baseless accusations. He refuse to keep collecting collateral damages for Jade’s own choices that are absolutely and ultimately of her own making.
He ended the video by addressing Jade to heal and free herself for all the thoughts in her head, that no one’s coming for her.
“Wag mo nang isipin yung demanda demanda te, let’s just leave each other alone and we will all be good. That I can promise you. I can give you your peace as long as you give me mine. Maybe someday pag nagkita tayo, we can finally look each other in the eye and smile. You know, I have always been very proud of you. And you have a bright and very beautiful future ahead of you with Down Under vs The World, alam mo yan te. Please, do not let this setback eclipse your moment to shine. I can always create a DITS stage, pero ikaw, you only have one life. So please, cherish it and live it to the fullest.”
Hi. I’m 26F. Planning to work as a part-time VA or whatever I can find na remote work.
- Currently working as a contractual employee in a govt agency
- Graduate of MPA & BSBA FM
- Finished my Steno 1 class
- I know basic clerical work. Managing email, submission of reports, use of microsoft office apps, assisting in the hiring & deliberation process sa office, answering questions ng clients in the social media accounts of the agency.
Question: Anong niche ang pwede kong aralin na hindi pa naman ganun ka-saturated? Or kahit saturated pero maraming clients? 🥹
As of 2:30am, kakatapos nila maglive pareho.
- My takeaways -
For Lash’s live:
- This issue is already 3 years old, and ngayon lang nagspeak up si Lash dahil natrigger. Naririnig ulit ang pangalan niya because of the current issue (Forda vs Jen)
- Lash is still traumatized, nanginginig at umiiyak while reminiscing what happened before. Kung paano niya hinarap yung mga hearing nang mag isa.
- She doesn’t gaf anymore if imo-mock siya ulit ng grupo ni Jen kasi sinabihan siyang “nginig nginig pa”
- She’s flabbergasted na Jen is saying now na mag ingat para sa mental health ni Forda, pero nung sakanya sinabihan pa siya mismo na di niya siya tatantanan hanggang madepress siya
For Jen’s live:
- Sabi, naglive lang daw si Lash dahil gusto makaipon pang New York
- Still no remorse. Napansin ko ang hilig niyang ilabas at pagtawanan yung mental health ng tao. First is how she exposed how vulnerable Forda’s mental health. Tapos ngayon sabi niya sa live na “(non verbatim) Pinapatunayan mo lang sinabi ng piskal noong hearing eh, ginawa mo ba? Pag kailangan ng tulong, magpacheck up kase” na kesyo wag daw nag iiiyak diyan at nadadamay siya
What are your thoughts on this issue? 👀☕️