u/lewishammy99

I'm 18 year old boy which have a lot of dreams..

I'm getting so much stress, because my hairs are falling after a stressful period of unsuccessful relationship..

Currently I'm getting tension about relationships..

My hairs..

My future..

At same time..

Like..

If i get a bald before marriage.. then who'll marry me..?

If i kept getting stress then would i become a mentally ill person..

Help me bros..

It's fu\*\*ing my brain..

I'm done with these thoughts now..

I need an honest outside perspective.

There was a girl I used to talk to regularly. Sometimes she initiated conversations first, talked playfully, shared parts of her daily life, asked about me, gave me notes, and even called me a few times. Because of this, I started believing there was genuine interest from her side.

Later, things became confusing.

She said it was just timepass. She said she didn't fully trust me. She never gave me proper clarity about what she actually felt. She picked a small mistake I made and made it a major reason to distance herself. She blocked me on one of her accounts. At one point she gave different explanations about a situation, which made me more confused. After deciding to go no contact, she never really explained things properly.

Recently I removed her from my followers and following list because I wanted to move on. Since then, a few things happened that have made me question everything again.

My question is:

Does this sound like someone who was genuinely interested at first and later changed their mind, or does it sound more like I was being kept around for attention, validation, or as a backup option?

I'm not looking for sympathy. I genuinely want an objective opinion because the lack of clarity has left me confused.

I need an honest outside perspective.

There was a girl I used to talk to regularly. Sometimes she initiated conversations first, talked playfully, shared parts of her daily life, asked about me, gave me notes, and even called me a few times. Because of this, I started believing there was genuine interest from her side.

Later, things became confusing.

She said it was just timepass.

She said she didn't fully trust me.

She never gave me proper clarity about what she actually felt.

She picked a small mistake I made and made it a major reason to distance herself.

She blocked me on one of her accounts.

At one point she gave different explanations about a situation, which made me more confused.

After deciding to go no contact, she never really explained things properly.

Recently I removed her from my followers and following list because I wanted to move on. Since then, a few things happened that have made me question everything again.

My question is:

Does this sound like someone who was genuinely interested at first and later changed their mind, or does it sound more like I was being kept around for attention, validation, or as a backup option?

I'm not looking for sympathy. I genuinely want an objective opinion because the lack of clarity has left me confused.