u/lioilhehehhe

I just wanna try new food, should be under 1300 atleast , because its like for one person order

Hi guys, first of all i would like to apologize for the last post where i expressed my love for mardjaat, i do acknowledge its not right to hate a whole 100% of a gender due to the crimes 95% of them commit☹️ par khair i just hope the guys in this sub don’t grow up to hurt others near them as you all are like my brothers and sisters and i would only like you all to have a hoppy life with your family where you and your wife treat eachothers like bestfriends rather then someone forced to be there for eachother and living a sad life and i hope because of you , someone doesn’t feel insignificant or wish to have never existed in first place. Also some asked do you not see the good men, or you just like to ignore them for your own sake , tbh i would answer it as, i never classified them as men , i always subconciously had a different catogary for them , not that i think of the good ones as mixed or something , its more like i have such a bad perception of men due to the media i have consumed , the environment, the news i have watched , the upbringing everything, its really the reason why i feel so much hate towards men in the first place, ofc good men exist but in this patriarchal society even for a good men, its hard to live in constant judgement for being different and not adhering to the toxic standards , being called rather girly for expressing their emotions and all

Ok so the real genuine question i made this post for was , if tomorrow you could be anything , like an accountant and artist a ceo, without the work , like you havent been to uni or college yet, and you only have one hour to decide , what would you be
I am asking this question because i am rather lost , idk ehat to do in life so your one hour wala thinking process might help me figure out what to choose

I used to be someone who loved without a worry , who always have a group of friends with me all the time everywhere i went, everyone knew my name, i was very confident and straight forward, always looked forward to going back to school, and life was just perfect
Then,
I transfered to another school branch, where i just couldnt fit in, people here have different lifestyle and mindset(not that they were better then me in anyway) but they were different from what i was used to, i made an effort to be friends with everyone, first few weeks eveyone knew me, wherever i went “hiiii” , sports yes, teachers liked me, academically strong then all of a sudden everything went downhill perhaps because the new tranfered student fever went down, now i no longer talked to everyone and just tried to have a decent friendship with a few people, sports? No more because the school already had a team and i was never informed or any trials whatsoever, even teachers worried about me and told me socialize a bit, life became horrible, i cried everyday, no friends, no hobbies, depressed , no friends to talk to, no social life and it hasn’t gotten any better, its my last year of school, hopefully college will be better, i tried out for stuco, my opponents have everything one could possibly need so why would anyone vote for me? I wouldnt if i was in anyones shoe, campaign starts tomarrow, i have no preparation, no posters, not evenn people i can count on for campaigns atleast, i feel so bad for myself, i hope no one has to go through this

Y’all better have some gifts ready for me , it could be anything like a guitar or pink colour ki auto car (hopefully a 2 seater but 4 works as well) or cutesy tops , and jeans and a surprise party
I don’t need anything expensive since i am such a caring and humble girlie yk(facts)

I cant tell you guys how happy i am , i was so sad lowking at praying cats post saying i was banned snd i was like mene apni pehchaan banali hai teen community mein (even tho yall didnt even know what gender i am) trust me when i say mera daal dhak dhak fast

I am the triple t , tung tumg sahur

Ok so yall know we have to reserve a username on watsapp, right so i thought of a funny one , how does the username work , is it like serious , or is it okay if i reaerve a funny one
I dont want be in a situation like

Dad:”beta , could you tell me your new watsapp username , i have to send you some important documents”

Me:” dad its thandicoke667 all letters small”

Dad “👁️👃🏻👁️”
That would be awkward lol

So what you wanna do is lay on the bed horizontally , now remember you need to face the fan directly
Ok so now comes the important part

1. relax your muscles
2. close your eyes
3. sleep

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Ok so basically next week is my birthday and ik i should be happy but i feel like crying , my dad is going somewhere so he wont be able to attend my birthday and its that way almost every time , not that i expect anything from anyone but i want my sweet 16 to be somewhat special , i want to feel like the main character that day ,i dont really celebrate my birthday because idk what to do how to do and who to invite , i barely got any friends in my new school so i cant even go to a cafe and celebrate and it feels like my day has gone to waste before it even comes 🫪 my family which consists of my parents and my sisters wont celebrate it either because i never ask them to . I thought maybe id go to a cafe with whoever wants to go with me and get cutesy pictures and a cake and post them on ig but then that would not make me necessary hapoy , it would only mean i am doing it for the show

Ok i finally finished the book ,i didnt notice the time but ig imma sleep after prayers now
Ok my thoughts on this book:
Every human must read this book once in their lifetime i why because
to men it will somehow make them a bit kinder , and clear to how their behaviour affect the whole household , how for so many man be@ting their wifes is a way of “disciplining their wifes” and that they shouldnt do that because the book descibes how a women in that moment would feel and how to not use religion to mask their faults , ik a man thinking has certainly evolved from time to time and they may be more liberal but in alot of south asian countries esp pakistan and afghanistan , women still face these or atleast nearly the same treatment

For women id say it teaches you to stand up for yourself because in a manipulative household , physical w@unds are somehow less painfull then emotional torture but one shouldnt have to go through either , it teaches women to never rely fully on a man (tho maryam and laila never had a choice to begin with). It makes you feel more grateful about the life you are living, about your parents who love you so much , it teaches you how far a mother/parent can really go for their child ,and lastly to many the courage to leave their @busive marriage

I couldnt cry on the chapter when maryam was h@nged because i didnt get enough time to process it before starting the new chapter ,Maryam didnt deserve any of that , she left as a boss lady (idk if i should say hero because dont we use it for a guy?) i wish she wasnt h@nged for basically defending another human, atp it had to be survival instinct and i dont think Islam punishes a just murd@r ( please dont say murder js unjustifiable )

I hope i dont get b@nned and thankyou for reading alla5 , i spent 20 minutes writing allat

I have a few books i am planning to read and they are gut wrenching , lmk if you want recommendation , saath mein royeinge

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How do you guys feel when your birthdays are approaching? Like the birthday month and finally the date itself.

Personally i feel very scared because its such a special day. Once it comes , it will go away again

How do you guys feel when your birthdays are approaching? Like the birthday month and finally the date itself.

Personally i feel very scared because its such a special day. Once it comes , it will go away again

Ok i am waiting for my results for 02 and i lwk feel like i wont get a good grade (hopefully i am wrong , inshallah) khair i have to start studying for math econ bst global perspective and socio , but i am scared. registrations open hogyi hain to when should i apply for them ( please dont tell me to apply now , i have yet to decide the subjects ) upar wale are not decided . Acc to the seniors who graduated or are in alevel , when should i apply for them late se late , Jesse koi extra charges yaan problem na hojaye in process

Lwk if yall want to ask how it feels to be someones crush 😛😛 maybe it will help you know if someone likes you as well ,ask me anything

Ok so , for the past few days, i have been using reddit quite a-lot and everyday i see people getting laid off or not getting jobs after graduating , i am honestly so scared because har mulk mein unemployment barhti jarhi hain . People spend millions on their education but jobs are not guaranteed , many people settle on 9-5 low paying jobs , what if jab tak mein graduate karoon , job market hi poora change hojaye yaan zyada tough hojaye , and also its genuinely getting tougher to get into uni abroad with all the requirements -ye skills seekho , ye karo wo karo , bhai itna pressure to mat dalo, atp its better to d_e (astagfirullah)

Yeah so i am bored , the title is just clickbait, its like 4 am oml i need to sleep, khair

Sitting in my room alone during a dawat , i wanted to kimd of say this so i would get your thoughts on my “trauma”
Okay so yk how there is always a kid parents /relative boast about , i am that kid(or thats what i think) , the all rounder child blah blah ,okay so the thing is i always help my mom in everything (i try to whenever i get the chance) and i have a rather caring personality? During dawat i help my mom around while my siblings sit free as if they are the mehmaan, and everyone constantly calling out my name ke yeh karso wo kardo , phir darke bhi mujhe partey ke kuch karna nhi ata(if like i do something wrong yaan slow)and my siblings ordering me around, i am not their fricking naukar, if i am helping around , thats not an obligation for me but atleast i am of some help unlike wo kaamchor phir wo nukz nikalte ke ye kaam ghalat kiya hai , and i lek used to cry after every dawat because of how they made me feel “sidelined” , i genuinoy felt like a maid , always eating sabse past me , being ordered around jab khana khaa rhi hoti hoon, sabse door bethi hoti hoon as if i am not a part of the family and being asked to care for the kids , i hate it so much but i cant really do anything about it because i would feel guilty otherwise , but i got so depressed kyunke khelne ki umar mein ye sab mujhe itni responsibility dete rhe , and when someone praises me, it feels like an insult because i want to be selfish and enjoy my life rather than putting others first