Am I right and wrong for feeling betrayed?
so basically there’s this guy, let’s call him milo, who i used to have a crush on. he had this girl he was pursuing before, let’s call her naya, and apparently she treated him like shit so he got really hurt after everything ended. (No cheating involved, just ghosted) a month later i ended up talking to milo again through a 5-man game and i still had a crush on him at that point. he told me he wasn’t ready for anything so i was like okay, fair enough. then literally within the month he’s talking to another girl from his class, so eventually i lost interest anyway. the funny part is naya kept appearing on my feed 😭 like her account would just randomly show up. i would screenshot it and send it to jace, milo’s bsf and the one i keep talking to (wingman), because we’d joke around about milo and naya and shit.
APPARENTLY he interpreted all of that as me being insecure about naya???? then days after i had already lost my crush on milo, i randomly followed naya because she kept appearing on my feed and i was like “whatever, i’ll follow you” AND NO GUYS, I’M NOT INSECURE OR JEALOUS. i even sent it to jace as a convo starter and his reaction was so weirdly disappointed. then MINUTES LATER, the gf of byron (byron is my classmate and is bsf w jace) sent me screenshots of byron and jace’s conversation where jace was basically saying i was fucking crazy and insecure and that apparently i’m immature. To me that seemed too emotional over a follow… I treated him as a friend and we’ve been talking for like, 2 months and now he’s talking behind my back instead of confronting me.
for the record i’m literally a girls girl. yes, i know naya hurt milo and i'm sorry he went through that, but i'm not automatically gonna hate a girl just because a guy i used to like had a horrible experience with her 😭 if anything that makes her more interesting to me ngl.. dont hate pls. I just dont like one sided stories. also my friendship with milo was shitty, we're not even close like that, he only told me “we’re friends for the meantime, let’s see how things will turn out” bullshit, there is no friendship code situation that implies i must not follow his worst girl experience ever. i literally just followed an account that kept appearing on my feed. Minutes after that, jace blocked me on tiktok, facebook, instagram. Like idk why was he so damn emotional? you were the one talking about me behind my back and somehow YOU'RE the one who had to block ME everywhere?????