u/louievee

/rant

Is it me, or am I the only one who’s sick of the “Am I gay?” posts?!

No one fucken cares.

You’re interested in some dick? Good for you. But why do you have to drag the entire internet into your insecurities?

You want to get on your knees? No one cares. You want to bend over? Who cares. Throw those legs in the air. Nope. Still don’t care!

Grow some balls and try it. You’re an adult (I hope), so be an adult. Make a decision without involving the village.

It’s unfortunate that society has browbeaten almost every male into the fear of being “GAY”!!

No, wearing pink isn’t gonna make you gay. Wearing an earring in one ear doesn’t mean you’re gay. Getting on your knees and trying something doesn’t fucken matter. Give it a chance. Do you have this much angst deciding on an ice cream flavor?

So suck that dick! Bend over and get plowed! Wear pink. But be careful about that earring! (I kid. I kid.)

Because no one fucken cares!

Sheesh!

Reading through this sub, it seems many age-gap relationships are intentional. Some younger men are looking for the experience and stability of an older man, while some older men are open to dating someone much younger.

But what about the relationships that just… happen?

I’m 70. At 69, I woke up one morning and thought, I’m not dead yet. After decades on the sidelines, I decided to put myself out there. I honestly expected to meet men around my own age—maybe dinner, some companionship, and a little fun a few times a month.

Instead, I met and fell in love with a beautiful 40-year-old man.

Next month will be our one-year anniversary. The age gap really hasn’t been an issue for either of us. If anything, he’s brought life, joy, and a spark back into this old fart.

So I’m curious…

Was your age-gap relationship something you intentionally sought out, or did it happen naturally? Did you set out looking for an older or younger partner, or did you simply meet the right person and the age difference turned out to be irrelevant?