u/lovergirl-throwaway

(23F) I was expressing my interest in deciding to rewait until marriage to someone I know. I am choosing to follow Christ nowadays, and I know this is something that the Bible calls us to do.
My first time wasn’t consensual, but I ended up having plenty of consensual sex afterwards with my first boyfriend.

So far he’s the only man I’ve been with. He cheated on me and we aren’t together, nor do I want him back.
But am I “used” for having been with one man? The person that called me this is encouraging me to have a one night stand and he also brags about “being a hoe” while “having a girlfriend”.

Is it unrealistic for me to want to remake a decision that was taken from me? My mom raised me to wait until marriage but unfortunately my choice wasn’t respected. Will all men decline my wishes? That’s what I was told.

Will a man appreciate me for my values? Do men appreciate preserved women who aren’t virgins? I feel so bad now. Is one body too much??!!

(23F) I was expressing my interest in deciding to rewait until marriage to someone I know. I am choosing to follow Christ nowadays, and I know this is something that the Bible calls us to do.
My first time wasn’t consensual, but I ended up having plenty of consensual sex afterwards with my first boyfriend.

So far he’s the only man I’ve been with. He cheated on me and we aren’t together, nor do I want him back.
But am I “used” for having been with one man? The person that called me this is encouraging me to have a one night stand and he also brags about “being a hoe” while “having a girlfriend”.

Is it unrealistic for me to want to remake a decision that was taken from me? My mom raised me to wait until marriage but unfortunately my choice wasn’t respected. Will all men decline my wishes? That’s what I was told.

Will a man appreciate me for my values? Do men appreciate preserved women who aren’t virgins? I feel so bad now. Is one body too much??!!

(23F) I was expressing my interest in deciding to rewait until marriage to someone I know. I am choosing to follow Christ nowadays, and I know this is something that the Bible calls us to do.
My first time wasn’t consensual, but I ended up having plenty of consensual sex afterwards with my first boyfriend.

So far he’s the only man I’ve been with. He cheated on me and we aren’t together, nor do I want him back.
But am I “used” for having been with one man? The person that called me this is encouraging me to have a one night stand and he also brags about “being a hoe” while “having a girlfriend”.

Is it unrealistic for me to want to remake a decision that was taken from me? My mom raised me to wait until marriage but unfortunately my choice wasn’t respected. Will all men decline my wishes? That’s what I was told.

Will a man appreciate me for my values? Do men appreciate preserved women who aren’t virgins? I feel so bad now. Is one body too much??!!

(23F) I was expressing my interest in deciding to rewait until marriage to someone I know. I am choosing to follow Christ nowadays, and I know this is something that the Bible calls us to do.
My first time wasn’t consensual, but I ended up having plenty of consensual sex afterwards with my first boyfriend.

So far he’s the only man I’ve been with. He cheated on me and we aren’t together, nor do I want him back.
But am I “used” for having been with one man? The person that called me this is encouraging me to have a one night stand and he also brags about “being a hoe” while “having a girlfriend”.

Is it unrealistic for me to want to remake a decision that was taken from me? My mom raised me to wait until marriage but unfortunately my choice wasn’t respected. Will all men decline my wishes? That’s what I was told.

Will a man appreciate me for my values? Do men appreciate preserved women who aren’t virgins? I feel so bad now. Is one body too much??!!