Am i Trippin Or ???
TL;DR: Me 'F/23' and him 'M/24' 7 year situationship almost I’m not saying he’s lying, but does anyone else deal with a partner constantly hinting that “people told them something” or vaguely accusing you of stuff without actually saying what happened?
Like yes, I know information can get back to him sometimes, and he pretty much already knows everything important anyway. But this has become a regular thing. He’ll randomly act weird, imply I did something, say people told him things, or accuse me vaguely — then refuse to explain because “it doesn’t matter” or “you’ll just lie.”
That’s what confuses me. If you truly think I did something and want honesty, why bring it up just to stay vague and create tension? It’s starting to feel less like communication and more like a tactic to get a reaction, start an argument, make me anxious, or get me to confess to something.
Am I overthinking this, or has anyone else dealt with this kind of behavior?