u/loveyourztrewly

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Am i Trippin Or ???

TL;DR: Me 'F/23' and him 'M/24' 7 year situationship almost I’m not saying he’s lying, but does anyone else deal with a partner constantly hinting that “people told them something” or vaguely accusing you of stuff without actually saying what happened?

Like yes, I know information can get back to him sometimes, and he pretty much already knows everything important anyway. But this has become a regular thing. He’ll randomly act weird, imply I did something, say people told him things, or accuse me vaguely — then refuse to explain because “it doesn’t matter” or “you’ll just lie.”

That’s what confuses me. If you truly think I did something and want honesty, why bring it up just to stay vague and create tension? It’s starting to feel less like communication and more like a tactic to get a reaction, start an argument, make me anxious, or get me to confess to something.

Am I overthinking this, or has anyone else dealt with this kind of behavior?

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u/loveyourztrewly — 2 days ago

Am i trippin Or ??

TL;DR: Me (24F) and him (24M). I’m not saying he’s lying, but does anyone else deal with a partner constantly hinting that “people told them something” or vaguely accusing you of stuff without actually saying what happened?

Like yes, I know information can get back to him sometimes, and he pretty much already knows everything important anyway. But this has become a regular thing. He’ll randomly act weird, imply I did something, say people told him things, or accuse me vaguely — then refuse to explain because “it doesn’t matter” or “you’ll just lie.”

That’s what confuses me. If you truly think I did something and want honesty, why bring it up just to stay vague and create tension? It’s starting to feel less like communication and more like a tactic to get a reaction, start an argument, make me anxious, or get me to confess to something.

Am I overthinking this, or has anyone else dealt with this kind of behavior?

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u/loveyourztrewly — 2 days ago

October due dates when was conception for you ?

Hello all, I’m due October 7th … Most likely i’m thinking conception was January 14th i literally had intercourse that day not saying it’s not possible to get pregnant on the same day my egg was released or been released but hoowww??? 🤣 i’m pretty sure it’s that date tho cause only other unprotected intercourse was Jan 3 … the 10 was protected but any other moms with october due dates close to mine and conceived in january and knew when they conceived ???

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u/loveyourztrewly — 5 days ago