u/lzlivz

Having my abortion felt wrong to me. I’m very pro choice always have always will to clarify before I get into this. When me (21F) and partner (29M) got pregnant we knew that the only option was abortion I don’t want kids never have and never will and neither does my partner. We have made this very clear from the start. Yet when we got pregnant I don’t know what it was but I really didn’t want an abortion. The thought of us being able to just make a baby was so beautiful to me. It was as if I really just wanted to have that experience with him. To be able to share such a vulnerable tender moment together as we both were child free and had never experienced that. We spoke about it for hours one night in bed and decided that there genuinely was no other option other than an abortion so we went ahead with it. I knew it was for the best and I wasn’t thinking rationally at the time but still a month later I’m rather upset about it. It’s weird not carrying his baby because when I was I was secretly rather happy. Not to be having a baby but to be able to have something so special just with me at all times. This may not sound like it makes any sense but I really needed to share this and maybe ask for advice.

My partner (29M) took my worn thong home as he said it was sexy…? Why do men do this? What about that is sexy? What do they do with it? I have so many questions